Relationship Goals: Why David and Victoria Beckham Are a True Power Couple - And What to Learn From Them
In 1997, he was a fresh-faced soccer player making waves in the UK's national team. She had just taken the music world by storm as part of the best-selling female group of all time, the iconic Spice Girls.
So when David and Victoria Beckham met, the tabloids went wild, turning the young couple into the it celebrity pairing of their day. Although love and marriage tend to crumble under the harsh glare of the media and public eye, swamped by paparazzi and rumors, Victoria and David have continued to go strong, celebrating 19 years of marriage which saw their family welcome four children and grow into a global pop-culture sensation.
Why Becks and Posh are a true power couple
After 21 years spent together, David and Victoria have now been together for half of their lives. 21 years that saw both rise to the top of their perspective careers, retire, launch successful new businesses and secondary careers, become immersed in charities and raise four happy children, some of whom have already started their own careers as well.
Fiercely dedicated to their children and each other, and weathering countless tabloid rumors while fully supporting each other’s careers and business endeavors, the Beckhams have amassed a whopping $900 million fortune, according to the Mirror. Moreover, both Victoria and David have been inducted into the Order of the British Empire, with David now a Commander and Victoria an Officer of the Order.
All the times they inspired us with their love
From their early days of public smooches and coordinated outfits – then again it was the ‘90s! – to joint charity appearances, the Beckhams never stopped inspiring us with their fairytale romance.
Whether separated by thousands of miles or moving across oceans to keep their family together when business called them away from London, the Beckhams never stopped being a close-knit family. Intimate family moments abound on both parents’ social media accounts, be it boys’ fishing trips with dad – in coordinated outfits of course – to sweet weekend brunches, date nights and gushing celebrations of each other’s achievements.
Reaffirming their commitment time and time again, Victoria is the proud owner of no less than 13 stunning engagement rings. But it’s not just glitz and bling that holds the Bechkam’s love together – while their 1999 marriage was a massive affair complete with celebrity guests and red velvet thrones, the two lovebirds renewed their vows back in 2017 in a very intimate setting, marking 20 years as a couple with “about six people there in our house,” as David revealed on BBC Radio 4.
The Beckhams' biggest relationship takeaways
So what are the secrets to the Beckham’s long-running relationship? It’s not diamonds, massive houses and magazine covers. It’s far more down-to-earth things like respect, equality and hard work. As Victoria told Elle, it’s having your partner’s back and taking over when necessary. “That’s how you can show your support in a marriage, by saying, “You know what, I’ve got this.” That’s what makes a good partnership.”
A successful marriage also requires time dedicated to each other as a couple: “David and I both respect that each of us are very, very busy; we are both running big businesses, but we do put the phones down, and sometimes, we just talk.” As for what David sees as the foundation of their happy marriage? Dedication and hard work, even when there’s rough patches:
“Of course you make mistakes over the years, and we all know marriage is difficult at times. It’s about working through it.”
Military Dad Defends His 4 Little Daughters When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Military Dad of 4 Daughters Defends His Girls When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Austin von Letkemann is the military officer strangers feel "sorry" for — and the reason is infuriating.
Whenever the devoted father leaves the house with his four children, strangers can't help but notice the officer in uniform is holding hands with 4 adorable little girls. They will tell the traditionally "masculine" and "all American" dad they feel sorry for him, because he has no sons. This dad makes one thing very clear: They are his daughters, they aren't a burden.
In a passionate video, von Letkemann took to Instagram to share with his followers that the only thing that's "difficult" about being a girl dad — is clapping back to these sexist remarks over and over again.
They Mock His Daughters To Their Face
When strangers approach Austin von Letkemann and his four daughters, they don't always realize that their comments are being overheard. They seem oblivious to the fact that his girls understand every word. Von Letkemann describes how people will approach him and, without thinking, make remarks like "I'm sorry" or even joke about his lack of sons. What they don't realize is that these comments, intended to be light-hearted or humorous, can be deeply hurtful to his daughters. These strangers are not just disrespecting von Letkemann's choices as a father; they're also sending a message to his daughters that their presence is something to be pitied. It’s a message that von Letkemann won't stand for, and he's speaking out to defend his girls from these insensitive remarksSaying "Get Your Shotgun" Isn't Funny — It's Sexist
Another common comment that Austin von Letkemann encounters is the old "better get your shotgun ready" trope, often delivered with a smirk or a wink. This line is typically intended to suggest that a father with daughters should be on high alert to protect them from potential "suitors," implying that they are objects to be guarded rather than individuals with agency.
Von Letkemann finds this line of thinking outdated and sexist. In his viral Instagram video, he points out that these jokes are not just stale — they're damaging.
By suggesting that his daughters require armed protection, the joke reinforces the idea that women are inherently vulnerable and need to be shielded from men. Von Letkemann argues that instead of promoting this narrative, society should focus on teaching respect and consent, challenging these sexist tropes at their source.
Watch Austin von Letkemann's Video:
"If I Had A Fifth Child, I'd HOPE It Was A Girl" — One Dad's Message For Other Parents
Despite the constant remarks about his lack of sons, Austin von Letkemann is clear: He wouldn't trade his daughters for anything.
In fact, he told his Instagram followers that if he were to have a fifth child, he would hope for another girl. This declaration isn't just about doubling down on his pride in his family — it's a pointed response to those who see fathering daughters as a misfortune.
Von Letkemann's stance is a powerful one, rejecting the notion that a family is incomplete without sons. He encourages others to question the assumptions behind these comments and to appreciate the joy and fulfillment that his daughters bring. By sharing his story, von Letkemann hopes to create a more inclusive perspective on fatherhood, one that values daughters just as much as sons.