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8-Year-Old Girl With Genius IQ Is Told Shes Too Smart to Have Autism
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8-Year-Old Girl With Genius IQ Is Told Shes Too Smart to Have Autism

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) continues to be a misunderstood neurodevelopmental disease, and people who have it present in many different ways. As a result, there are many prejudices and mistakes that people can make in association with it, particularly when it comes to young girls.That’s why this story of an eight-year-old girl named Ana is so powerful. Thanks to an enlightening interview with the child, she’s making headlines for breaking stereotypes.An Eight-Year-Old GeniusThe world was introduced to Ana in late March when Special Books By Special Kids shared a video interview with her. In it, people met the bright eight-year-old, who has a genius IQ and holds memberships in the Davidson Young Scholars community and Mensa.Ana is homeschooled and has already completed Grade 4. She’s also fluent in English and Spanish and has created a fictional purple planet called Hypothia. It has its own ecosystem and societal structure. One day, Ana wants to become an astrophysicist and study space.This child also happens to have ASD and a physical disability called arthrogryposis, which affects the joints in all four of her limbs. However, she thinks that makes her even more special.“Having all of those things is really just a blessing to me,” she said. “I want myself to be different. I really like everything about me.”Breaking Preconceived NotionsAna says people often comment that she’s too smart to have autism. However, she really wants people to know that one has nothing to do with the other.According to Ana’s mom, many people have these preconceived notions because most people’s exposure has been to children with ASD Levels 2 or 3.“They’re used to seeing maybe some of the ways that children find it difficult to express themselves when they have autism or the ways that they need to express themselves because they’re nonverbal or they’re struggling with overstimulation and things of that nature,” she explained.As a result, she said people look at Ana and say “crazy things” like she "speaks too well" to be autistic, or she doesn’t “look” autistic, or she reads too well.“Just because a child can’t communicate verbally doesn’t mean they’re not intelligent,” she added. “Highly intelligent in fact. I think people just need to understand, you know, there’s a saying in the community, if you know one person with autism, you know one person with autism.”By sharing their story, Ana and her parents hope they can shed more light on ASD and help others understand that each child with autism is unique.“Everybody’s different and I want [everyone] out here and watching to respect everybody else with their differences,” Ana said. “Everybody should be different. I think everybody should be happy just the way they are.”Embracing Our DifferencesAs Ana herself said, everybody should be different, but it’s only when we embrace those differences that we can truly learn from one another and grow as people. Her story is a nice reminder that intelligence comes in many different forms, and we should never assume to know how someone truly is without getting to know them first.When you’ve only seen certain portrayals of disease and disorders in the past, it can be tough to move forward and break stereotypes. But by asking questions, keeping an open mind, and reminding ourselves that there is a lot we don’t know about any given subject, change is definitely possible.More from Goalcast:Little Boy With Autism Fails Test – So His Teacher Writes Him a Letter That “Broke” His MomLittle Girl With Autism Tries to Blow Out Stranger’s Birthday Candles — His Reaction Goes ViralStudent With Autism Is Brought in Front of the Whole School – After Watching This, His Dad Writes a Letter to His Classmates

8-Year-Old With Autism Has Hard Moment at School - Principal Does Something Shocking That Goes Viral
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8-Year-Old With Autism Has Hard Moment at School - Principal Does Something Shocking That Goes Viral

Teaching can be a tiring and thankless job, especially when it comes to dealing with students from many walks of life. That’s why when the story of an educator going above and beyond to help one of their students surfaced, it caught so many people’s attention.Well, that’s exactly what one assistant principal did one day when he chose to help a boy with autism ride out a hard moment: he went above and beyond, and his actions went viral.A Rough Day at SchoolEight-year-old LJ was having a hard time after school one day in Columbus, Ohio. The school bus was late in picking up the kids at Garfield Elementary, and LJ just wanted to go home. The third grader has Down syndrome and autism, so he had a hard time handling his feelings that day. As a result, he laid down on the hot concrete to wait.Rather than try to convince him to get up or reason with him, assistant principal Jon Smith decided to lie down with LJ and wait for the bus. It was a small action that made a huge impact, and an aide named Amber McKinniss, who worked at the school, decided to snap a photo.McKinniss shared the photo with LJ’s mom, Steph Compton, and she was completely touched.“It’s really awesome to know from a parent’s standpoint, that there are people that care that much about your child,” she told an NBC News affiliate. “To get down on the ground and lay on the ground with them to make sure that they’re alright.”Spreading the WordAfter receiving the photo, Compton knew she wanted to share the beautiful moment far and wide. So she posted it on Facebook, where it quickly went viral.“I absolutely LOVE this... LJ’s school has a new assistant principal this year... Mr. Smith... apparently LJ was having a ‘moment,’ and he got down on his level to help him out,” she captioned the photo. “This is why even though we live across town... LJ still goes to Garfield.”People in the comments agreed that the educator had gone above and beyond, and it was awesome to see.“He seems to be a great principal that cares about the kids!!!” wrote one person.“This made my day so much better. Only hope he’s still there when my boy is old enough,” wrote another.Embracing Our DifferencesOne reason this story is so touching is that it shows us how important it can be to embrace our differences, and to allow grace and compassion in our actions when it comes to guiding our youth.Mr. Smith, who wasn’t available for an interview at the time, knew that this little boy had special needs, so rather than respond to his moment the way he might have another child, he got down on his level. It was a small thing that inspired plenty of parents and fellow educators out there.It’s a beautiful reminder that we can all make a difference if we stop and think about how to best approach any situation in life, and understand that sometimes the standard response isn’t the best one. However, showing that you care and that you want to understand can go a long way.Just ask LJ’s parents, who are now comforted knowing that at school, their kid will be surrounded by people who genuinely care as much as they do. More from Goalcast:Worried Mom Sends 7-Year-Old Autistic Son on Plane Alone – His Seat Neighbor Does Something ShockingLittle Girl With Autism Tries to Blow Out Stranger’s Birthday Candles — His Reaction Goes ViralDistraught Mom Orders Meal To-Go After Her Son With Autism Has a Meltdown in Cracker Barrel – Attached to the Bag Is a Note

Little Girl With Autism Tries to Blow Out Strangers Birthday Candles  His Reaction Goes Viral
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Little Girl With Autism Tries to Blow Out Strangers Birthday Candles His Reaction Goes Viral

Parents of children with autism are, unfortunately, used to facing stigmas in their daily lives. So often, strangers can judge them or act harshly toward their children because they don’t understand what it’s actually like to walk in their shoes.Sometimes, though, strangers can turn all of that around with a simple act of kindness. That’s exactly what one man practiced on his birthday, and now his actions are inspiring others around the globe.A Birthday CelebrationA man was out to dinner with some friends one day to celebrate his 29th birthday. After the meal, the servers came over with a cake and did a short “Happy Birthday” performance. Typically in these situations, other restaurant-goers will take note and smile. Sometimes, they’ll even sing along.On this particular day though, a young girl with autism saw the celebration and wanted to be involved.In a video shared by Good News Correspondent on X, the girl comes over to the table and tries to blow out the candles. Immediately, her father follows and tries to stop her, but the birthday boy surprises everyone by insisting the little girl be the one to blow them out.The smile on the little girl’s face (not to mention the one on her dad’s face) is so sweet that thousands of people shared the video and reacted to it on social media.An Inspiring MessageIn the comments, you can see how inspired people were by this man’s kindness. Parents were particularly touched and thankful to see such a positive interaction.“As a mom, I have to say thank God for people like this young man,” one person wrote. “Others have to deal with strangers telling us that autism is not an excuse and verbally attacking us.”Someone else gave a shout-out to the girl’s dad. “Sweet. And respect for Papa trying to do his best,” she wrote. “Our special needs kiddos are not always received positively or given much grace from strangers when they have impulsive, compulsive, sensory seeking moments.”"If you can be anything, be nice."“If you can be anything, be nice,” someone else added. Another person shared that sentiment: “Kind people deserve the best.”Choosing KindnessThe reason this story touched so many people is that it inspires us all to be a little kinder in our own lives, too. Sometimes, we can get in a bad mood or feel like things aren’t going our way, and it makes us want to retreat and keep to ourselves.But, as this man proves, choosing to lead with kindness whenever we can has the potential to light up so many lives around us — including our own. That’s why it’s important to put ourselves in other people’s shoes and why we should always try and remember that we never really know what others are going through deep down.Whether it’s bringing someone an extra coffee, baking treats for a neighbor, or even just checking in on someone who has been having a tough time lately, these gestures matter. Besides, the more we practice leading with kindness, the more we can integrate it into our daily lives.From there, who knows who we may inspire.More from Goalcast:Distraught Mom Orders Meal To-Go After Her Son With Autism Has a Meltdown in Cracker Barrel – Attached to the Bag Is a NoteBullied Non-Verbal Autistic Woman Named Valedictorian – Her Unbelievable Speech Will Inspire YouWorried Mom Sends 7-Year-Old Autistic Son on Plane Alone – His Seat Neighbor Does Something Shocking

Distraught Mom Orders Meal To-Go After Her Son With Autism Has a Meltdown in Cracker Barrel - Attached to the Bag Is a Note
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Distraught Mom Orders Meal To-Go After Her Son With Autism Has a Meltdown in Cracker Barrel - Attached to the Bag Is a Note

*This story appeared on Love What MattersAny parent knows that dining out with kids can be like Forest Gump's famous box of chocolates: "You never know what you're gonna get."It's a real-world game of chance, with the winner getting to actually sit down and enjoy a delicious, hot meal prepared and served by someone else. Ah, bliss. Sometimes, however, the odds are not in your favor. Despite your best efforts, your child just isn't having it. And they have zero qualms about letting the entire restaurant know. And in these moments, what parents need more than anything else isn't judgment. It's grace, understanding, and a whole lot of kindness. Thankfully, that's just what this mama found.The Reality of Raising a Child With AutismJamie Heustess and her husband Chris just wanted a nice family dinner out. It had been a long day with their six-year-old autistic son, Ian. So, after an awards ceremony, karate lesson, and a trip to Walmart, the family headed to their local Cracker Barrel. Raising a child with autism presents its own unique set of challenges. Situations that other children may find overwhelming can be doubly so for kids who struggle with social and sensory issues. While Ian is usually able to make it through at least part of a meal in a restaurant, on this particular day, he was done before it even got started. The breaking point came when Chris gave his son a couple of Finding Dory mystery figure boxes to open while they were waiting to order. After opening up both boxes and discovering that neither of them actually contained Dory OR Nemo, Ian lost it. Unable to calm him down, Chris took him home while Jamie stayed behind to order takeout. In a Facebook post shared on her personal page, Jamie wrote about the incident and the "realities of autism" many people don't understand. "Cue meltdown... he does not understand it is the luck of the draw," Jamie said. "His cries escalate....making it impossible to think straight. So.....i am sitting waiting on a to go order while Daddy takes him home.......Autism is not easy.....some days it totally sucks.... "A Cracker Barrel Waitress Gives Dinner To-Go With a Heaping Side Order of CompassionAs Jamie tearfully explained the situation to their waitress, Kailyn, she couldn't help but have her own meltdown.But not because she was embarrassed by her son. No, she was worried about what the other diners thought of him. Being judged by others stings but when that judgment is directed at your own child it feels like death by a thousand daggers. In a subsequent Facebook post, Jamie wrote: "By this time I was crying and having a moment, not because I was embarrassed that my son is autistic, but because he is a good kid and I didn't want anyone to think he was just a spoiled kid being a brat."Jamie HeustessKailyn was "gracious and sweet" and promised that she would get Jamie's order in quickly. Fifteen minutes later she reappeared with Jamie's take-out — free of charge. In a sweet act of kindness, the waitress decided to pay for the meal herself out of her tips.(After hearing about what she did, her manager, James, reimbursed her the money.)"I started crying all over again. I asked if she was sure and she reassured me it was taken care of, not to worry. I cried walking out, sure the other customers and employees thought I was crazy."An Act of Kindness Turns Into an Unforgettable Message of EncouragementOut in the parking lot, Jamie noticed a piece of paper attached to the bag. She assumed it was the receipt but on second glance realized it was a handwritten note. Not only had Kailyn paid for her meal, but she also took the time to make sure Jamie knew exactly what she thought of her. "Your child is amazing Mommy, be strong. Keep your head up. You are doing a great job. Have a great night. Your server, Kailyn." While the gift of a free dinner was certainly nice, the words of encouragement were priceless. At a time when she needed it most, a stranger told her exactly what she needed to hear. Jamie was so moved by the note that she hung it on her fridge.Parenthood has a lot of amazing moments but it has a lot of difficult ones too. Having someone validate us and support us in the midst of the muck goes a long way. The reality is that we are living in an age where judgment, hatred, and division are rampant. And it doesn't just apply to parents. But we can each do our part to change it. Rather than tearing each other down, we can build each other up. One kind word, dinner, or note at a time.More from Goalcast:Boy With Autism Walks Into Restaurant to Pick Up a Menu – When He Doesn’t Come Back, His Dad Finds Out What’s Going OnSchool Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing – So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response10-Year-Old Girl With Autism Bullied At School — Turns Out Her IQ Is Higher Than Einstein’s

Manager Approaches Mom After Customers Complain About Her Child - He Pays for Their Meal After She Asks Him This Question
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Manager Approaches Mom After Customers Complain About Her Child - He Pays for Their Meal After She Asks Him This Question

*Featured image contains photo by energepic.comWe don’t always know what someone else is going through, especially concerning parenting. These days, parents face many challenges, and each situation is unique and specific to their personal circumstances.That means we should try never to judge, especially since we don’t always have all the information. Instead, we should try and lead with kindness, as one restaurant manager is reminding us all following his interaction with a woman and her child who has autism.A Busy NightTony Posnanski had been working in the restaurant industry for 15 years when he encountered a woman and a child who would forever change his life. You see, back in 2014, Posnanski was having a particularly rough night at his restaurant.The team was behind, and he needed to pitch in at various positions. So he was extra busy when a server asked him to speak with upset customers.At the table, the patrons complained about a mother and her child close to them, saying the child was being extremely loud. It wasn’t the first time Posnanski had received a complaint about a loud kid, but this time, it was different.As Posnanski approached, the mother knew what was about to happen. Before the manager could speak, she asked him a simple question instead:“Do you know what it is like to have a child with autism?”A Surprising ReactionPosnanski later wrote an open letter to the nameless woman and her child in the contributor section of the Huffington Post. There, he recalled that she didn’t rudely ask the question. She was actually quite sincere.“Your daughter could not have been more than five years old,” he wrote. “She was beautiful and looked scared that I was at the table. She looked like she thought she was in trouble.”The question threw the manager, and instead of asking them to quiet down, he high-fived the little girl and told the mother he was covering their dinner.“I know what I was supposed to say when I went to your table. I was supposed to politely tell you to please not have your daughter yell. I was supposed to offer to move you to another area. I was supposed to offend you by not offending you...” he wrote. “I did not do any of that.”A Life LessonPosnanski could not stick around to see the woman’s reaction since he was needed back in the kitchen. He was also sure the table who had complained in the first place wasn’t happy with how he had handled the situation. Still, he walked away with a big life lesson.“You asked me a question that I did not answer,” he wrote. “You asked me the question right away. You have been through this before in other restaurants. I did not want to be like other managers for one moment. I did not want to tell you what you always heard.”He explained how he wanted to write the letter to thank the woman and her daughter for what they did for him.“You have given me a great restaurant memory. One that I needed for the last 15 years,” he said. “You also taught me a valuable lesson. Sometimes doing the right thing does not make everyone happy — just the people who need it the most.”Doing the Right ThingSometimes, doing the right thing doesn’t necessarily mean doing the easy thing. It would have been easy for this restaurant manager to move the mom and her daughter or even compensate the complaining table. Instead, he showed compassion and understanding by paying for the mom’s meal, proving that she and her daughter matter as much as any other customer.We never really know what someone else is going through, so we should always try our best not to jump to conclusions or act out when our emotions cloud our judgment.At the end of the day, the only person whose behavior we are responsible for is our own. And while it might seem like a good idea to try and fix people, correct behaviors or even judge others for their actions, our job is to love. Sometimes, that can be hard, but kindness is always worth it.More from Goalcast:Boy With Autism Walks Into Restaurant to Pick Up a Menu – When He Doesn’t Come Back, His Dad Finds Out What’s Going OnBoy With Autism Was Too Overwhelmed to Get a Haircut – So the Barber Came Up With a Genius Solution10-Year-Old Girl With Autism Bullied At School — Turns Out Her IQ Is Higher Than Einstein’s

Football Player Notices Boy Always Sits Alone During Lunch - His Anxious Mom Then Receives a Photo From a Cop at the School
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Football Player Notices Boy Always Sits Alone During Lunch - His Anxious Mom Then Receives a Photo From a Cop at the School

Sometimes we forget how much simple acts of kindness mean to others or how they can transform a day. But leading with compassion is so important because we never really know what other people are going through beneath the surface. And often, people are going through more than we think.This story from Florida reminds us of that, thanks to a football player who made a middle school kid’s day.A Regular Day for This KidCBS NewsBo Paske was three years old when he was diagnosed with autism. His mother, Leah Paske, knew it was important for her son to have a strong support group, which is why when it came time to pick a middle school, she chose Montford Middle School in Tallahassee, Florida, according to Today.The mother knew Bo’s entire elementary school class would be at the middle school, so he would have a lot of friends who “are super protective of him and take care of him,” she explained to the publication. But even with those friends around, Bo often chose to eat lunch alone in the cafeteria. A solo meal was what Bo chose the day the Florida State University football team happened to visit the school. A child sitting there by himself didn’t escape the notice of wide receiver Travis Rudolph.A Game-Changing DecisionWhen Rudolph saw Bo sitting alone, he headed over and joined him. When he made that decision, he had no idea Bo had autism. But that kind act caught the attention of plenty, including Leon County Sheriff’s Deputy Mike Halligan, who happened to be a friend of Paske. He snapped a photo and sent it to the anxious mother, who always thought about how her son was doing at school.According to the publication, Paske shared the photo on Facebook and wrote that she was “overwhelmed with emotion.” It was a big moment for her son, and when she picked him up from school that day, he quickly showed her his autographed lunchbox, saying that he was famous.“I had tears streaming down my face,” Paske wrote. “I'm not sure what exactly made this incredibly kind man share a lunch table with my son, but I'm happy to say that it will not soon be forgotten. This is one day I didn't have to worry if my sweet boy ate lunch alone because he sat across from someone who is a hero in many eyes.”Spreading Kindness Near and FarThe Paskes are now fans for life; this past summer they even traveled to Palm Beach to support Rudolph during recent legal troubles (the player was later cleared of all charges). But this mother added that Bo’s story isn’t just about autism: it’s about kindness and love. That day in the cafeteria, Rudolph showed both to her son, and she was incredibly grateful.“Somebody may not act the same as you, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have the same heart and the same spirit,” she told the publication. “If you see somebody alone, all it takes is a few kind words or a kind gesture to make their day. A hug or a smile can impact people in a way that you can’t even imagine.”It’s a fantastic reminder to practice kindness and love in our own lives, whether it’s dropping a random note or text to a loved one to check in, helping a stranger at the grocery store, smiling and complimenting others, or even just being there to listen.In this world, it’s easy to sometimes feel down and alone. But a smile, kind thought, or gesture can be just the thing someone needs to turn around their day.More from Goalcast:10-Year-Old Boy With Autism Surprises Parents with Hidden Musical MasteryBoy With Autism Was Too Overwhelmed to Get a Haircut – So the Barber Came Up With a Genius SolutionSchool Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing – So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response

Boy With Autism Walks Into Restaurant to Pick Up a Menu - When He Doesnt Come Back, His Dad Finds Out Whats Going On
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Boy With Autism Walks Into Restaurant to Pick Up a Menu - When He Doesnt Come Back, His Dad Finds Out Whats Going On

Compassion and kindness can mean a lot in life, especially to someone who may be facing things we don’t know about. One small act can be uplifting and inspiring, not to mention meaningful to the person on the receiving end of that act.That’s why one mother had to share an amazing story about her son who has autism and the kind restaurant worker who decided to give him a free meal one day.Practicing a Big Life StepFacebook/Sandra BlockOne day, Pat Long was coaching his son, Owen Block, to ask for a takeout menu at Sun Restaurant in Williamsville, New York. They practiced several times in the car, and then the father sent his son in solo to try and complete the task. But then he didn’t come back out, and the father grew concerned.“My husband is waiting... and waiting... and waiting...,” recalled Owen’s mom, Sandra Block, in a Facebook post. “So he finally decides to see what's going on. What's going on is that my son is at a table, eating.”According to Sandra, Owen had gone inside and asked for a take-out menu. But he also told the hostess he was hungry.Feeding Someone in NeedThe hostess was Aye Thein, the Sun Restaurant partner and manager. She didn’t know Owen had autism; she just saw a guy who was hungry and needed a meal.“So she sat him down and asked what he wanted to eat, and he answered: ‘beef,’” Sandra continued. “She told her cooks, ‘Hurry, this boy is very hungry,’ and made him a beef curry with rice. She said that he was so sweet she was planning on letting him eat for free.”“After he said ‘I’m hungry,’ and when I looked at his face, from my heart, I said, ‘Oh, he’s a very special boy to me,’” Thein later told WIVB4 News.“That is just so uncommonly kind. Like how often can you imagine someone — I’m going to cry thinking about it! That’s just so awesome to me,” the mother told the outlet, tearing up.Spreading the Word… and KindnessSandra’s post quickly went viral on social media, with thousands liking and sharing the sweet story. Several news outlets also picked it up and helped to further spread this story of a sweet gesture that reminded two parents there are kind and thoughtful people out there in the world.According to Thein, she practices something called “metta.” The Burmese-Buddhist practice is about living with a lack of ill-will and serves as a spiritual antidote to things like fear and hatred.“Metta means loving and kindness to everybody,” Thein explained to the news outlet.Leading With KindnessAs a parent who spent all of her son’s life worrying about him and his autism, Sandra was incredibly moved by one kind gesture. She wasn’t the only one, which is why this tale of kindness has traveled so far and wide.It’s a really nice reminder for all of us to lead with kindness in our own lives and to stop and look at any given situation with a full heart rather than one clouded by all of the things we have going on in our own daily grinds.We may not be able to offer free meals to everyone, but we can certainly offer free smiles, kind words of encouragement, or greetings in which we genuinely want to know how the other person is doing. Leading with kindness and grace in any situation is always a happier and healthier way to live and can inspire others to do the same. And, as it turns out, it can also be the thing that unknowingly makes or breaks someone else’s day.More from Goalcast:Autistic Teen Bullied and Beaten by Peers — So a Group of Strangers Gave Him a “Dream Day” He’d Never ForgetSchool Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing – So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response10-Year-Old Girl With Autism Bullied At School — Turns Out Her IQ Is Higher Than Einstein’s

Mom Notices Young Son Rushing to Spend Time With 39-Year-Old Hotel Worker - And It All Started With One Simple Word
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Mom Notices Young Son Rushing to Spend Time With 39-Year-Old Hotel Worker - And It All Started With One Simple Word

In a world that sometimes feels hurried and disconnected, there are moments that remind us of the profound impact simple acts of kindness can have. This story is one such reminder, a testament to the beauty of human connection.Our tale unfolds in a Hampton Inn in Pennsylvania, where Megan Griffin Haas and her son, Colin Haas, found themselves during a stopover. How a Hotel Employee and a Young Boy Formed a BondPhoto by Tima MiroshnichenkoColin, a young boy with autism, possesses a special love for card tricks. These aren't just any tricks; they're his way of navigating a world that can often feel overwhelming. Cards, in Colin's hands, become more than pieces of paper; they are instruments of focus and bridges to connect with others.As they checked into the hotel, little did they know that this would be the setting for a heartwarming story that would touch the hearts of many.Colin, with a heart full of innocence and curiosity, approached the front desk. Standing behind that desk was Kahlief Hill, a 39-year-old hotel clerk. Colin looked up at him, his eyes bright with excitement, and asked a simple question: "Would you like to see a card trick?"What Kahlief didn't know at that moment was the profound impact of his response. He didn't know that Colin had autism, and for Colin, card tricks were more than a hobby. They were his sanctuary, a way to quiet his mind and keep his hands engaged. Colin had lost his father a few years ago, leaving him with a void where a male figure and role model should be.“I always appreciate anybody that takes the time for anybody, but my son especially because (of) losing his dad and living with only me and his sister, he misses interacting with other males,” Megan told TODAY Parents.How a Stranger Became a Young Boy’s Role ModelIn her heartfelt post, Megan shared the depths of what Kahlief didn't know. He didn't know about Colin's autism or his passion for card tricks. He didn't know that Colin had been waiting for a "big brother" for over two years, living with just his mom and sister. And Kahlief didn't know that he was becoming that male figure Colin longed for.Despite not knowing any of this, Kahlief's response was a simple and genuine "yes." He allowed Colin to take center stage, performing his card tricks with unwavering patience and enthusiasm. It wasn't just about watching; Kahlief also shared some tricks of his own, creating a magical exchange of wonder and smiles.This beautiful connection didn't end that night. The following evening, when Colin and his family returned to the hotel after dinner, Kahlief was there, manning the front desk once more. And when he saw Colin enter the lobby, he extended the invitation once again: "Would you like to come and practice more card tricks?"Without hesitation, Colin rushed to his room, returning with his cards in hand. Kahlief, still unaware of the profound impact he was having on Colin, continued to be the warm and patient friend the young boy desperately needed.Their bond deepened further the next day when Kahlief was working yet another shift. This time, he made it clear to Colin that he was ready for more card tricks. For Colin, it was a simple offer. For Kahlief, it was a continuation of an act of kindness that would leave an indelible mark on Colin's heart.How One Simple Word Had a Positive Impact on a Young BoyMegan's words resonate with the power of these moments: "I love and live for feel-good moments like this."In a world often marked by its complexities and challenges, the story of Colin and Kahlief reminds us of the extraordinary impact of ordinary acts of kindness. Kahlief's willingness to engage with a young boy, not knowing his struggles or his story, reflects the best of humanity — a willingness to connect, to share, and to make a difference, no matter how small it may seem.It's a story that encourages us to look beyond the surface, to see the hearts beating beneath the exteriors, and to understand that sometimes, all it takes to make a profound impact is a simple "yes" and a willingness to share a moment of connection.Colin and Kahlief's story is a reminder that in a world that sometimes feels disconnected, there are moments of pure, heartfelt connection that transcend barriers and fill our hearts with hope and warmth.More from Goalcast:School Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing – So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response10-Year-Old Girl With Autism Bullied At School — Turns Out Her IQ Is Higher Than Einstein’s7-Year-Old Boy With Autism Is Terrified of Riding the School Bus – Drivers Have an Unexpected Response

School Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing - So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response
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School Janitor Takes Boy With Autism Under His Wing - So His Mom Raises $35,000 in Response

Fitting in at school can be tough.Not everyone makes friends easily or finds the transition from home to class that simple. For those who have certain conditions or disabilities, however, it can be even more challenging to fit in. That’s where one elementary school janitor made a huge difference in a little boy’s life.Starting School for the First TimeAmos Wood was three years old when he began school at White Oaks Elementary in Edenton, North Carolina. The child has autism and didn’t talk, so it was especially hard for him to make any friends. The school’s janitor, Raymond Brown, noticed Amos, however. And he decided to take him under his wing.“My heart went out for him; he was in Pampers when I first met him, and I kept showing my love towards him,” Brown told ABC11. “He got that, been attached to me, and I got attached to him, so I gave him the name Famous Amos.”“After Mr. Brown started saying 'hello' to him and calling him 'Famous Amos,' Amos started saying, 'Hey Brown,' when he saw him. He wasn't even saying 'Daddy' at that point, so it was really something,” Amos’ mom, Adrian Wood, told Today.“Famous Amos” was a great nickname because it stuck. Before long, all the other students began calling the boy “Famous Amos” too. He went from being the shy new kid to the one the other students loved. Some of them would even fight over who got to hold Amos’ hand on the way to class.“I give Mr. Brown a lot of credit for that,” Wood told ABC11. “Here's this man that everybody adores, and he showers some attention on Amos, then everybody was like, 'Well Amos is pretty cool,' and he might not be the kind of friend that plays... or talks, but children really gravitated towards him; which, for me, the mother of a child with a disability, is all I want in life for him.”More Than Just the JanitorMr. Brown isn’t just kind to Amos; he is kind to all of the students at the school and has become a beloved figure in the community.“He’s kind of our rock, our foundation of what we do here at school,” the school’s principal, Michelle Newsome, told WTKR. “What makes Mr. Brown the most special is that he works really hard to build relationships with the students, sincere relationships that many of our students would not otherwise have.”No one was surprised when Mr. Brown was nominated for the North Carolina School Hero award. But when he didn’t win the accolade (or the $10,000 prize), Amos’ mom decided to raise awareness about the kind soul who had helped her son so much.She took to her blog and rallied the community to help award him a different award: the Famous Amos Award.Recognizing a Special Person“We need to recognize those same people that might not be on the big screen but are doing really good work and get overlooked. My Amos, he's so successful but not successful in how the big world defines success,” Wood told WTKR. “So when I said the Famous Amos Award, I was like, that's perfect because Mr. Brown exemplifies that, and so does Amos.”She was shocked that so many people donated money towards the award. Not only did local community members contribute, but she also received donations from other parts of the country and around the world. In the end, they raised $35,000 for the man.On the big day, Mr. Brown’s daughter told him there was a party to celebrate his 38th wedding anniversary. Instead, when he arrived at the waterfront just before lunch, there was a huge crowd waiting for him and cheering him on.Mr. Brown was shocked and told outlets he planned on buying the school staff food and treating all the kids to ice cream. He planned on putting the rest towards work on his house and perhaps a new truck.“Some of the kids said, 'Mr. Brown, I wish you [were] my father. [I] wish you were my grandfather,' and that made me want to love them even more,” he said.Making Meaningful ConnectionsWhat Mr. Brown did for Amos was nothing short of heartwarming. But what makes this story truly special is how Mr. Brown has developed bonds with each one of the students at his school over the year. He isn’t popular because he cleans up spills and messes or because he brings students their lunches. He is beloved because he takes the time to get to know his students and connect with them on a personal level.It’s something we could all do more of in our own lives. Take the time to get to know those around us, whether that’s at home, at work, at school, or in our community. We all crave that human connection, but it takes practice to listen more, talk less, and show up for the people in our lives.If we can learn to do that, our lives will just be richer.More from Goalcast:Woman Works Grueling Hours Cleaning Up School as the Janitor – Now She’s One of the School’s Most Beloved TeachersAn 80-Year-Old Janitor Was Forced Out of Retirement to Work Again – So His Students Raised Over $200,000 on His Behalf

What Is Neurodiversity? Meaning & Examples
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What Is Neurodiversity? Meaning & Examples

Normality is an agreed consensus. Perhaps that consensus has come from the tendencies of the majority, or imposed beliefs about what normal means by those in influential positions. Either way, normal is subjective. It’s defined by a society or culture and changes with the times. Behaviors that were once viewed as normal change and evolve. When it comes to people, attempting to place cookie-cutter moulds of normality is impossible. While there are shared traits across humanity, and while there are ways of being that are much more common than others, we’re fortunate enough to live in a world with a huge, diverse cross-section of minds, hearts, and personalities. It’s part of the colour of life.Normal and AbnormalOne of the biggest issues with defining normal is that you create its opposite — abnormal. When it comes to understanding the brain, and how it affects human behaviour, there has been a strong push to accept that diversity is normal. To better understand differences, some find, it's more effective to view diversity as a spectrum, rather than rigid labels or normal or abnormal.This movement comes under the term neurodiversity. This covers the rich variety of brain structures and human individuality, in a way that empowers everyone to fulfil their full potential, without being compared to typical behaviour. Do you ever feel like you don’t fully fit in with standards of normal? In this article, we’ll cover different aspects of neurodiversity, to give you an understanding of the full spectrum of human brains.What is Neurodiversity?The word neurodiversity was coined by sociologist Judy Singer in 1998, as part of the movement to create a Neurodiverse Paradigm for understanding neurological differences. Neurodiversity centers around neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior. It’s based in neurology, the branch of science that studies the nervous system and brain differences.No common standardThere is still confusion around the language used, with no common standard, even across activists and academics. The term diversity covers “variety across a group” but doesn’t quite capture neurological difference in all its glory. The University of Edinburgh uses the metaphor of a spice cupboard. “You only have a diverse range of herbs in your cupboard if you have lots of different ones. Lovage is not ‘diverse’ while parsley is ‘typical’. ‘Diverse’ is not a synonym for ‘rare’. Rather, lovage, basil, thyme and parsley make up a diverse group of herbs.”The neurodiversity movementThe purpose of the Neurodiversity Movement (which is also part of the Disability Rights Movement) promotes equal rights for people who have rare, or neurodivergent, traits and challenges the approach that views one particular way as healthy. A quote by Einstein summarises the ethos well: “Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Neurodiversity recognizes that variety is the spice of life, but respects that some people have disabilities that require special attention, like for certain disabled people, autistic people, etc. The Neurodiversity Movement opposes attempts to view differences as pathological or attempt to fix or cure them to align with common standards. Instead, there is a desire to find ways to support individuals to fully express their unique traits — particularly for informational and educational purposes.Although the difference between neurotypical and neurodivergent appears to be simply grammar, the above explanation hopefully demonstrates why neurodiversity advocates think it’s important to find consistency in the language used. Planet Neurodivergent offers a clear explanation of the meaning behind these definitions:“There is no such thing as a ‘neurodiverse individual.’ The correct term is ‘neurodivergent individual.’ An individual can diverge, but an individual cannot be diverse. Diversity is a property of groups, not of individuals. That’s intrinsic to the meaning and proper usage of the term diverse. Groups are diverse; individuals diverge. In addition, neurodiverse does not mean ‘non-neurotypical.’ The opposite of neurotypical is neurodivergent, not neurodiverse.”Neurotypical vs. NeurodivergentNeurotypical is the term given to people who have “typical” neurological development and brain functions. Neurodivergent people, from young adults to the elderly, diverge from conventional standards or stereotypes around mood, learning ability, social ability, or attention. The “neuro” element explains how neurodivergent people’s brains process information in different ways than neurotypical people.ADHD Aware estimates that between 30 or 40 percent of people classify as neurodivergent, with many remaining undiagnosed, especially those who are “high functioning” and able to adapt to common challenges of society. When you think about it, that’s a significant number of the population who don’t fit conventional standards, which in itself shatters the illusion of normality. Types of NeurodiversityNeurodiversity advocacy began within the Autism Movement. Singer, who coined the term, referred to herself as “likely somewhere on the autistic spectrum” before expanding to other types of neurodiversity. The Neurodiverse Movement no longer focuses exclusively on autism, and now covers a wide range of neurodiverse conditions. Below are some of the most commonly recognized types of neurodiversity:AutismAutism, or autism spectrum disorder (ASD), has a broader definition, and covers a wide range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech, and nonverbal communication.The “spectrum” in ASD is because the symptoms of autism range from mild to severe, with many subtypes that affect individuals differently. It’s believed there are many factors involved in the development of autism, rather than one concrete cause.In America, 1 in 54 children is estimated to have autism spectrum disorders. Common symptoms include variation in developmental milestones throughout childhood, delayed language development, difficulty understanding others’ feelings, trouble maintaining eye contact, difficulty with changes in routine and surroundings.ADHDAttention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common forms of neurodiversity in children. ADHD often appears in conjunction with other neurodevelopmental disorders, such as autism or dyslexia. People with ADHD struggle with attention and organization, as it impacts parts of the brain that control planning, focus, and execution. In addition, people with ADHD might experience hyperfocus, hyperactivity, and excessive emotions. People with ADHD also have high levels of creativity and unconventional ways of viewing problems.Down syndrome(Jessie Casson / Getty)Down syndrome is a genetic condition where someone has an extra chromosome, the “packages” of genes found in the human body. Most people have 46 chromosomes, but babies with down syndrome are born with an extra copy of chromosome 21. This causes developmental differences in both the body and the brain — making it a type of neurodiversity.It’s common for those with down syndrome to also have mild to moderate intellectual disabilities. The average IQ of an adult with down syndrome is 50, which is around the same level as an eight or nine-year-old child. In addition to physical symptoms, people with down syndrome can struggle with the ability to speak, developing stutters or speech impediments, which adds to their competitive advantage deficit.DyslexiaDyslexia is a type of neurodiversity affecting speech, writing, and reading. One definition of dyslexia is “a learning difficulty that primarily affects the skills involved in accurate and fluent word reading and spelling.” Like autism, it’s also viewed on a continuum and is seen in people with a wide range of intellectual capabilities. People with dyslexia may confuse the order or structure of words. They may take a while to read and write, and have trouble recollecting or pronouncing different words.DyscalculiaDyscalculia is similar to dyslexia, but people with this condition struggle with math, instead of language. Dyscalculia causes people to struggle with basic maths problems, complex, abstract ideas, and conceptualizing things like bigger vs. smaller. People with dyscalculia struggle with tasks that include basic math skills, or “number sense,” including cooking, time management, and grocery shopping. Although less well known, it’s estimated to affect the same amount of people as dyslexia — around 10 percent of the population.HyperlexiaHyperlexia is an advanced reading ability combined with an intense fascination with words or numbers. Children with hyperlexia might demonstrate a strong connection to reading from a younger age, far exceeding usual developmental markers. Hyper means “beyond,” and Lexia refers to “language and reading” (hence its use in dyslexia). There has been some recognition hyperlexia is a superability, due to it far exceeding expected norms. However, it's important to keep in mind the early development of hyperlexia in the 1960s included an additional neurodevelopmental disorder and is often associated with autism spectrum disorder.Other forms of neurodiversityOther forms of neurodiversity include Tourette’s syndrome, synesthesia (where several senses are stimulated simultaneously, such as associating numbers with color), and epilepsy. Chronic mental health illnesses, from OCD, depression, and bipolar disorder, are forms of neurodiversity, too. As is handedness — in fact, the brains of left-handed people differ so much from right-handed people that they’re not used in brain studies due to problems with data.The benefits of neurodiversityThe Neurodiversity Movement attempts to celebrate difference as key to moving humanity forward and contributing to growth across wider groups of people. Far from being outcasts of society, neurodivergent people offer valuable insights. Author and neurodiversity advocate John Elder Robinson, who himself had undiagnosed Asperger syndrome, wrote for Psychology Today:“If 99 neurologically identical people fail to solve a problem, it's often the 1 percent fellow who's different who holds the key. Yet that person may be disabled or disadvantaged most or all of the time. To neurodiversity proponents, people are disabled because they are at the edges of the bell curve, not because they are sick or broken.”A different type of one percentRobin’s approach to championing the 1 percent is demonstrated by savant syndrome. This is the term given to those whose neurodiversity causes them to far exceed averages in other areas — like those with hyperlexia who have exceptional skills with language. It is estimated around half of people with autism, for example, are “autistic savants,” who demonstrate exceptional abilities in other areas.Savant skills are typically associated with five key areas: art, memory, arithmetic, musical abilities, and spatial skills. When thinking of savants, most people might recollect the 1988 movie, Rain Man. The movie was inspired by Kim Peek, a neurodivergent individual who had exceptional memory abilities; during his life, he memorized over 12,000 books. However, it’s not only in extremes that benefits are found, as savants still represent a small number of neurodivergent people. Most of us can acknowledge that there is much, much room for improvement in the world as a whole. To make progress, we must come up with original ideas, and new ways of thinking. Neurodiversity is one cause of new ideas and new approaches that can benefit all areas of life.In recent times, a big benefit of the neurodiversity movement is that businesses are being more considerate of hiring a neurodiverse workforce. Not viewing a person for how well they fit into conventional norms allows their natural talents to excel. Think of someone who lacks social skills to network, but is exceptionally talented at writing code or analyzing data. Technology giant Microsoft has an autism hire program in their own company, and they create jobs that focus exclusively on candidates' technical skills. It creates a different form of psychological safety in the workplace. Criticism of the neurodiversity movementAlthough started with good intentions, there are opponents to the Neurodiversity Movement. Moheb Costandiis, a molecular and developmental neurobiologist, highlights a number of critiques. The movement itself has at times been likened to surpassing its original intent and becoming more an ideology. Other critiques include favoring high-functioning neurodiverse people, in addition to romanticizing conditions. As a result, the Neurodiversity Movement, which has become increasingly popular since Singer’s early exploration, can minimize the struggles people face by outright rejecting medical models. Minimizing strugglesFor those with extreme conditions, medical assistance might be necessary to function. In an essay for Aeon, Costandiis offers a new approach to neurodiversity in general: “It is, therefore, time to start thinking differently about neurodiversity, and to recognize the importance of free speech in the public discourse on autism, because if neurodiversity means anything, it means accepting that we all think differently, and that not everyone takes pride in being autistic.”I’m a big believer in the Buddhist philosophy of the Middle Way, of attempting to find a path of balance throughout life. Perhaps with neurodiversity, this is finding a balance between celebrating, accepting, and seeking to understand unique challenges, without overly romanticizing or pedestalling conditions that can lead to a lot of hardship and struggle.Do you share any neurodivergent traits?Many neurodivergent people spend most of their lives undiagnosed. That’s partly due to a lack of information, partly because there is such a variety of different experiences, it’s difficult to identify when someone isn’t neurotypical. It’s much easier to diagnose children than it is with adults. Awareness is key — due to the increase of information on autism, for example, diagnosis has seen a ninefold increase over the past 20 years.The path to being diagnosed or understanding if you have neurodivergent traits is initially through your own experience — there might be certain areas of life where you intuitively feel different or notice you struggle to keep up with certain standards of reading, writing, socializing, or using your communication skills.Far from me to say what your best process is, it’s worth keeping in mind that the ethos of the Neurodiversity Movement is to celebrate and accept neurodivergent traits. Having a label or diagnosis doesn’t have to define you, but it can be a powerful catalyst in self-acceptance, and allow you to find tools that can maximize your potential. For people who have felt harshly judged — the fish told to climb trees — this type of validation can be significant.Not only can it help you understand yourself, and the reasons behind your approach to life, it can be useful in allowing others to better understand you. That includes friends, family, as well as employees. So if you suspect you may have neurodiverse traits, it pays to do research into different types, and then consider seeking the help of a professional. The world may have tried to place you in a box, but that’s the world’s fault. Always remember that you are you, that variety is the spice of life, and it’s your uniqueness, not your conformity, that is your greatest gift.