Man Writes a LinkedIn Post After His 59-Year-Old Dad Lost His Cashier Job - And the Response Was Shocking
Losing a job is never easy. The financial strain, uncertainty, and stress that come with it can be overwhelming. Not to mention the fear and anxiety of not knowing what comes next. So when Peter Judge, 59, found himself caught up in the recent wave of layoffs sweeping across the country he was understandably "heartbroken" and scared.Peter, who has spent his lifetime in the service industry, had been working as a cashier at a WinCo Foods in Phoenix, Arizona for the past four years. He loved his job, and he was good at it. But suddenly, it was gone. RELATED: Man Saves a Life After He Notices a Person Recklessly Driving a Car – Instead of Being Rewarded, He Is Fired From His JobSingle and living paycheck to paycheck, it was a devastating blow.To compound the stress of losing his job, the world has changed a lot in the last few years when it comes to finding a job. It's a world Peter knows very little about.That's where his son, 30-year-old Patrick McCarthy comes in.When Patrick heard his dad's news, he could definitely relate. Having lost his own job as a marketing manager for Coursera just a month prior, he understood the crushing weight of uncertainty and loss. He wanted to do something to help.So, he decided to bring his dad into the digital age. The LinkedIn Post That Made Magic HappenPeter Judge/@LinkedInPatrick turned to the online networking platform LinkedIn. He hoped to find some support for his dad and maybe a job lead or two. What he ended up finding was magic.He shared a heartfelt post on LinkedIn, explaining how his father had lost his job and how much he loves working with people, dedicating most of his career to serving others.“This is Pete. He’s my dad,” the post began. “He’s been in the service industry for most of his professional career. Walgreens, Fry’s, Winco. He loves his customers. He loves being the reason people come back. He loves seeing customers seek out his lane for check-ins and updates. He said to me, 'I’m good at this stuff.'"“Most of his professional stints have lasted 10+ years. As anyone would be, he’s shocked. Overwhelmed. Scared. Emotional,” the post continued. “His network is not like mine. He doesn’t even really know how to make his next move. But I know whoever is reading this and this LinkedIn community can make magic happen.”Magic. Made. The Response to the LinkedIn Post Was IncredibleTo Patrick's surprise, the post received an overwhelming response. In just over a week it garnered nearly 20K reactions, 800 comments, and 600 shares. Turns out a lot of people could relate to Peter's situation and wanted to help.Commenters came out in droves to offer support, encouragement, and even employment opportunities, including executives with Southwest Airlines and Tyson Foods.RELATED: Single Dad Commutes 16 Miles Every Day on Foot Working Two Minimum Wage Jobs – So Strangers Gift Him a CarOthers offered pro bono help with career coaching, interview prep, and résumé and cover letter reviews.Even LinkedIn stopped by to show its support, commenting "Pete sounds like a top-tier employee! ???? Keep us posted as he progresses on his journey, as well as any tips or insights either of you learn along the way - it may help those in a similar situation."Peter couldn't believe it. “I never saw any of this coming,” he told the Washington Post. “This has raised my spirits like you don’t even know.”He said it even went so far as to restore his faith in humanity.The Power of CommunityWith the help of his son, Peter created his own LinkedIn profile and is currently sorting through his options, taking time to find the perfect fit.He also expressed his gratitude for all of the support he's received. "I would like to thank all of you for the overwhelming support, suggestions and offers," he wrote on LinkedIn. "My son Patrick is guiding me on this journey. I'm still learning the ropes of LinkedIn, so bear with me." While he may still be learning how to use LinkedIn, one thing he does know for sure is the power of community and family in helping you get through difficult times. Just knowing that he has so many people supporting him has given Peter a much-needed boost of confidence: “People do believe in people. It makes you want to go on and get out there.”Social media can often bring out the worst in people, but it also has the power to bring out the best.When someone needed it most, an online community stepped up and came together in heartwarming solidarity. It just goes to prove that when used for good, social media can do what it was initially meant to do: connect people and create positive change.
How Business Conferences Are Bringing People Together With Irreplaceable Live Experiences
In our increasingly digital age, there are many social networks that claim to do the job of connecting creative and entrepreneurial people, replacing real human interaction. But if the industry conferences being developed and run by the major movers in media are any indication, sharing a live experience is still one of the best ways to stimulate fresh ideas and develop new connections. The New York Times isn’t just writing for readers anymore — it’s inviting them to join reporters and sources to tackle big, burning questions about everything from what’s next in luxury to artificial intelligence. The Globe and Mail was recently looking for a bartender and a venue supervisor to staff its new conference space in Toronto. What started three decades ago as a series of secret meetings on the future of music has become the gigantic conference/festival hybrid SXSW in Austin, Texas. TED — which launched in the ’80s as a conference about technology, entertainment and design — has ballooned into a library of 2,000-plus talks in 100-plus languages. And at the eighth edition of C2 Montréal this year, May 22-24, over 7,000 creatively curious industry leaders, innovators, entrepreneurs, and other forward-thinkers will once again get together to develop the tools to take on challenges in their industries and unlock new business opportunities.So, despite fears that we’re all becoming too web- and work-obsessed in an era of swipes, clicks and snaps, getting together in real life has definitely not gone out of style.In fact, conferences are still king.From big brands to small businesses, live happenings are having a(nother) moment. Not only do conferences allow us to get away from our screens and connect on a human level, but -- from branding, networking, revenue and happiness standpoints -- they are, quite simply, good for business.Nothing beats a handshakeYou might wonder why, in 2019, when we can all just Zoom, Skype or Hangout with each other anytime, it’s still worth it for some of the world’s busiest people to hop on planes and trains to actually meet. For most of us, it’s pretty simple: at a gathering packed with diverse and engaged minds, you might hit it off with your next mentor, partner, best friend, or business soulmate. Never underestimate the places a good conversation can take you and your company.It also turns out that we’re not as good at convincing people to do things over email as we think we are. A study, published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, found face-to-face requests to be 34 times more impactful than email ones.Science also says it pays off to literally reach out. Researchers at Harvard and the University of Chicago found — in four separate studies — that physically shaking hands bodes well for negotiations and is a welcome sign of cooperation to come.Don’t underestimate the power of being there in person.Experiences help us connectOur wallets have spoken: people are collectively more keen to spend money on experiences than on things, and the business community isn’t immune to this. Cornell University’s Dr. Thomas Gilovich, a professor of psychology who studies happiness, explained to Fast Company that one of the reasons we’re all attracted to experiences over things is because we can share them with each other — they help us connect.As Huffington Post founder Ariana Huffington told The New York Times, even though digital may rule the day, “the need to actually be live and connect with human beings and listen to people in the flesh” is one of the paradoxes of our age.Since most industries rely on building and maintaining relationships, in-real-life situations can effectively set you up to meaningfully meet other people. Who doesn’t love a chance encounter?It’s faster than an MBAAnother reason events are popular despite our increasingly time-strapped world is because they pack a lot of learning in. At conference events like C2 Montréal, talks, panels, workshops and, masterclasses are designed to teach participants something tangible that they can bring back to the office, and to generate those elusive “ah-ha!” moments.Walking through someone else’s creative process, prototyping or problem solving are fine ways to get synapses firing and to make important intellectual connections. It offers you a chance to skill-up without going back to school. And the takeaways are pretty great. Once a conference is over, you can take what you learned from your experience and pay it forward for the benefit of your entire team — and it’s hard to put too high a price on that.