Chrissy Teigen’s Twitter Departure Is A Reminder To Put Yourself First
Chrissy Teigen leaves Twitter after having an important realization and reminds us all that we deserve peace and positivity in our lives.
When it comes to social media, every celebrity has their platform of choice. For Chrissy Teigen, that platform has always seemed to be Twitter. Known as the ultimate “Clapback Queen,” Chrissy has always kept it real even when (many) people didn’t like it. With 13.7 million people following her tweets, in a heartwarming and equally truthful fashion, Chrissy said goodbye to Twitter, possibly for good.
On March 24, 2021 Chrissy announced her departure with a series of tweets acknowledging the double-edged sword of the widely used social media platform. She began her goodbye thread by saying, “Hey. For over 10 years, you guys have been my world. I honestly owe so much to this world we have created here. I truly consider so many of you my actual friends.” Teigen then continued saying, "But it's time for me to say goodbye. This no longer serves me as positively as it serves me negatively, and I think that's the right time to call something."
Chrissy had an established reputation on Twitter
Since taking the Twitterverse by storm, the model, cookbook maven and wife to John Legend has had many memorable moments online. There was her ongoing feud with former President Donald Trump. Chrissy then infamously responded by calling the former president some choice emasculating expletives of her own. There was the incredibly heartbreaking and highly controversial announcement of her miscarriage, where Chrissy was accused of using the pregnancy loss as some sort of publicity stunt. And finally now, international news is ablaze with reports of Chrissy Teigen’s final tweets on the platform.
On Twitter, haters loved to hate her, and supporters loved to support her. According to Chrissy however, a lot of us had her pegged all wrong. Teigen wrote in one of her final tweets:
My life goal is to make people happy. The pain I feel when I don't is too much for me. I've always been portrayed as the strong clap back girl but I'm just not.
Chrissy could never please the public
Prior to Chrissy’s final statement quitting Twitter, she received a significant backlash for engaging in a business collaboration with Kardashian matriarch Kris Jenner. The two created a plant-based cleaning product venture together that resulted in many labelling Chrissy as a “sellout.” Perhaps this was the straw that broke the camel’s back, or perhaps her departure was pre-planned, either way the former Queen of Twitter is trending on the platform as a result of her deactivated account.
The negativity Chrissy mentions in her goodbye thread was delivered to her mentions in the hoards with people often criticizing the outspoken model’s every word. It would seem as though you don’t accumulate 13.7 million followers without attracting almost equally as much hate in the process. Chrissy finally said enough is enough, called it quits on the popular social media site and let everyone know how much she loved them while still saying, “adios, goodbye!”
Using her platform for good also came with backlash
Over the years Chrissy has made a lot of mistakes and missteps while speaking her truth. Perhaps her most celebrated and criticized moment however, was the infamous decision to share those emotional photographs taken by husband John Legend in the hospital just after learning that their baby on the way was stillborn. The immense pain she was going through in that very moment, living every future parent’s nightmare, resonated with many and her sharing of the photos was applauded by her supporters and those who could relate. However, while it was a watershed moment for some, critics worldwide also viewed the posts as uncalled for, self-promoting and all around in bad taste.
While Chrissy said at the time, “I cannot express how little I care that you hate the photos,” the sounds of her final messages on the social media outlet sing a different tune. Clearly Chrissy is sensitive enough to the barrage of negativity online to take a concerted stance to protect her space and mental health above all. Not even the thrill of going viral daily in the form of wittily crafted 140 characters or less tweets could keep her there.
Chrissy wrote in her departure thread, “My desire to be liked and fear of pissing people off has made me somebody you didn’t sign up for, and a different human as I started out here as! Live well, tweeters. Please know all I ever cared about was you!!!” Teigen continued saying, “I encourage you to know and never forget that your words matter. No matter what you see, what that person portrays, or your intention. For years I have taken so many small, 2-follower count punches that at this point, I am honestly deeply bruised.”
Chrissy left--not without acknowledging her mistakes
The formerly crowned “Mayor of Twitter” acknowledged her past mistakes saying, “I have made mistakes, throughout years and in front of hundreds of thousands, and been held accountable for them. I’ve learned an incredible amount here.” However, Chrissy goes on to say that she has tortured herself over the messed up things she has said on the platform but then says, “one thing I haven’t learned is how to block out the negativity.”
In reality, who can blame her? When you receive hate for the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly things that you do, eventually you have to take action to protect your peace. Before deactivating her account, Chrissy stated that she’s “sensitive” even though she doesn’t want to be and then in the typical Queen of Twitter fashion said “but I love you guys and I cherish our time together, I truly do. I also hate you.”
And with that, a Twitter legend and self-proclaimed “de-motivational speaker” signed off and confirmed her departure through a social media post on her Instagram. In the Instagram caption Chrissy spoke of Twitter saying, “The platform no longer serves me as positively as it does negatively, so with that I bid you adieu.”
Putting your mental health first is always a good look, no matter how many people are watching. Throughout the years Chrissy has made us laugh, think pensively as well as critically, and pushed the envelope time and time again. However, it seems that on March 24, 2021 Chrissy sealed the envelope for good.
Learn when to leave when it doesn't serve you
Life is a journey that many of us choose to share online with our followings however large or small they may be. For Chrissy, the sheer nature of the hate that she was receiving on Twitter overpowered the good and she did what she needed to do. Hopefully now that she has taken this step back from the platform that she entertained for so long, she can heal from the massive onslaught of hateful words sent her way daily.
Words will always matter and whenever you find yourself in a toxic environment, wherever that may be, you have the authority to decide to pick up and leave. Chrissy’s Twitter profile may have been a top account on the platform, but that is clearly not what matters to her most at this point in time.
Your mind is yours to protect and to protect fiercely. Chrissy may know how to compose a tweet, but thankfully for herself and her loved ones, she knows how to take care of herself above all. In the end, self-love is about putting yourself first, and prioritizing your wellbeing as paramount. Always do what you need to do to protect your peace because your present and future self will thank you in the end.
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Military Dad Defends His 4 Little Daughters When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Military Dad of 4 Daughters Defends His Girls When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Austin von Letkemann is the military officer strangers feel "sorry" for — and the reason is infuriating.
Whenever the devoted father leaves the house with his four children, strangers can't help but notice the officer in uniform is holding hands with 4 adorable little girls. They will tell the traditionally "masculine" and "all American" dad they feel sorry for him, because he has no sons. This dad makes one thing very clear: They are his daughters, they aren't a burden.
In a passionate video, von Letkemann took to Instagram to share with his followers that the only thing that's "difficult" about being a girl dad — is clapping back to these sexist remarks over and over again.
They Mock His Daughters To Their Face
When strangers approach Austin von Letkemann and his four daughters, they don't always realize that their comments are being overheard. They seem oblivious to the fact that his girls understand every word. Von Letkemann describes how people will approach him and, without thinking, make remarks like "I'm sorry" or even joke about his lack of sons. What they don't realize is that these comments, intended to be light-hearted or humorous, can be deeply hurtful to his daughters. These strangers are not just disrespecting von Letkemann's choices as a father; they're also sending a message to his daughters that their presence is something to be pitied. It’s a message that von Letkemann won't stand for, and he's speaking out to defend his girls from these insensitive remarksSaying "Get Your Shotgun" Isn't Funny — It's Sexist
Another common comment that Austin von Letkemann encounters is the old "better get your shotgun ready" trope, often delivered with a smirk or a wink. This line is typically intended to suggest that a father with daughters should be on high alert to protect them from potential "suitors," implying that they are objects to be guarded rather than individuals with agency.
Von Letkemann finds this line of thinking outdated and sexist. In his viral Instagram video, he points out that these jokes are not just stale — they're damaging.
By suggesting that his daughters require armed protection, the joke reinforces the idea that women are inherently vulnerable and need to be shielded from men. Von Letkemann argues that instead of promoting this narrative, society should focus on teaching respect and consent, challenging these sexist tropes at their source.
Watch Austin von Letkemann's Video:
"If I Had A Fifth Child, I'd HOPE It Was A Girl" — One Dad's Message For Other Parents
Despite the constant remarks about his lack of sons, Austin von Letkemann is clear: He wouldn't trade his daughters for anything.
In fact, he told his Instagram followers that if he were to have a fifth child, he would hope for another girl. This declaration isn't just about doubling down on his pride in his family — it's a pointed response to those who see fathering daughters as a misfortune.
Von Letkemann's stance is a powerful one, rejecting the notion that a family is incomplete without sons. He encourages others to question the assumptions behind these comments and to appreciate the joy and fulfillment that his daughters bring. By sharing his story, von Letkemann hopes to create a more inclusive perspective on fatherhood, one that values daughters just as much as sons.