Navigating the complexities of co-parenting after a divorce is no easy feat, but one mom is feeling incredibly grateful for the harmonious dynamic she shares with her ex-husband.
In a touching video that has taken social media by storm, the remarried woman reveals the beautiful relationship between her former spouse and her new family. The video, which has garnered over four million views, showcases a heartwarming scene that highlights the power of mature and respectful co-parenting.
A Shocking Visit
Woman snaps pics of current husband waiting for her ex to show up.
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In the video, Mom’s ex-husband arrives to pick up their son for the weekend. Instead of making a quick exit, he steps inside to catch up with the boy's stepdad and spend quality time with his ex-wife’s younger children. The wholesome interaction captured in the video is truly endearing.
A Message of Gratitude
Woman snaps pic of her current husband and her ex husband across from each other.
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“When your ex is only supposed to pick up his son… but he comes in to see your husband, and your other children,” the woman wrote over the heartwarming footage.
She added, “I’m so lucky to have two mature men who have spent the last nine years getting along… for his sake. And how nice for my children I’ve had since, to love seeing their big brother’s dad, too.”
Praise From The Community
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The video has touched many hearts, with commenters applauding the kindness and maturity displayed by all involved.
“That’s two secure men there,” wrote one user. “Love it.”
Another added, “This was so pleasant to watch. After having parents who split and this never would have happened this was such a beautiful sight to see. Well done to you all. Coparenting isn't easy."
A third said, “The right thing to do for the kids.”
"It's So Lovely To Be At Peace"
Woman captions photo of her ex-husband holding her kids.
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This video is a testament to the strength and beauty of a supportive co-parenting relationship, showing that with maturity and mutual respect, families can create a loving and nurturing environment for their children, no matter the circumstances. "It's so lovely to be at peace, I can only imagine the energy it must take not to be..." she captioned.
For those who don't have the perfect relationship with their ex, take heart. Every situation is unique, and building a positive co-parenting relationship takes time, effort, and patience.
Remember that progress, no matter how small, is still progress. Focus on creating a loving environment for your children and know that with time, understanding, and communication, even the most challenging relationships can improve. There is always hope for a better tomorrow.
How Do I Choose The Right New Year’s Resolution?
As we approach the New Year, many of us have started to think about our New Year’s resolution. During the holidays, we are excited and optimistic that this year will be a good year, so in this context, we choose a New Year’s resolution with the best of intentions. Fast forward one month and 36% of us will have already abandoned our goal. By the middle of the year, only 46% of people will still be working on their resolution.
There are many reasons for this. Some people’s motivation fades with time, some get discouraged as soon as there is a small setback, others fail to plan ahead, and most people keep their resolution to themselves. Therefore, they aren’t accountable to anyone. But, in my opinion, the main reason we fail is because we do not choose the right goal in the first place.
Lose weight, stop smoking, start a new sport, learn something new, find a soul mate... every year it’s the same thing. We either choose a goal to fit in or to impress others. Because of this social weight and tradition, we feel pressured to choose something. Most of us do not put the necessary time and reflection to choose the resolution that is right for us.
This year, to reach your resolution, follow these guidelines to choose New Year’s Resolution that is right for you.
How Do I Choose The Right New Year’s Resolution?
Make it Simple
Choose a resolution that is simple and that you think you can achieve with reasonable confidence. It can be risky to suddenly take on too much since it can often end in disappointment. Opt instead for an easy goal, so that you can get to success faster and use that confidence to achieve other things. Going step by step is more important than going fast.
Choose something you can control
Whenever possible, find a resolution whose achievement depends entirely on you. These goals are often easier to achieve, and they allow to establish a more direct link between your actions and our progress towards that objective. The best is to choose a goal that can be repeated every day, for example running every day. It is faster to incorporate into a daily habit behavior instead of a weekly or monthly habit.
Choose One Resolution At a Time
Each of us have several things we want to improve, but it’s better to choose initially only one thing to improve and make it our unique goal. We have limited energy and to choose more than one goal is to scatter our energy. It’s better to focus on one thing and then to fully dedicate ourselves to it for a time. Do not make a bucket list. There is nothing that prevents you from choosing a new resolution once you reach your first. The mistake that many of us make is to choose a goal that will take the whole year to realize. Instead, you should focus on what is more important, and then choose a second goal once the first one is complete.
Make it Part of a Bigger Goal
You have to start by choosing a resolution that is right for you. It needs to be consistent with your values, your project and your goals in life. Take the time to ask yourself what your goal in life is. The goal you choose has to be important to you. How many of you have a clear idea of where you want to be ten years from now? Start with that.
The most important thing is to take the time to choose the right goal for you. The latest study also shows that you can increase your chance of achieving your goals by sharing it with others. So, once you find the goal that is right for you, we have built a free tool to help you share your goals in three easy steps. So, try it out and let us know what you think!