Being a mom and raising a family is hard work. Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a working mom, all moms just want to feel seen and appreciated. Unfortunately, that isn’t always the case. And one tired stay-at-home mom decided to do something about it.
Why A Stay-At-Home Mother Of Two Felt Underappreciated
A TikTok user named Sierra Nicole was tired of not feeling appreciated by her partner for all of the things she did around the house while he was off at work. Sure, she wasn’t necessarily bringing home a paycheck, but she was doing a ton of work at home that was going unnoticed and unpaid. So one day when her partner accused her of not doing anything she decided to make a video.
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The video, which was posted to the social media platform in May, is just over a minute long and features Sierra doing her evening routine with her two kids. “My boyfriend says I don’t do anything at all while he works all day, so I thought I’d take a video of all the things that I do,” she explains.
The Multitude Of Tasks One Stay-At-Home Mom Does Each Day
In the video, Sierra starts off by washing a ton of dishes before attempting to make her daughter a dinner that she will eat. When that battle is done, she cleans the kitchen and changes her son’s diaper. Then she bathes her daughter and washes her hair (another battle) and gets her dressed in specific pyjamas. “She’s super picky about what she wears and she has to have socks,” the mom explains.
You would think bedtime would be next, but nope. Sierra then incorporates a bit of TV time while she situates her son, folds laundry, and begins tidying up the dining room. Then it is time to put her daughter to bed, which is another mini battle this mamma overcomes while staying calm and supportive.
Then she turns her attention back to her son and hangs out with him while trying to finish cleaning up the dining room and living room. At that point, she’s hungry so she eats her dinner standing up at the counter with one hand while holding her son in the other.
Of course, her son has an accident on her, so she changes them both and then finishes eating. Then she bathes him, gives him a bottle, and finally gets him to sleep. Think it’s finally time for the mom to relax? Not yet. She finishes the cleaning and sweeps and mops the floor. Exhausting, right?
Normally after I was done with that I would be texting him to ask what he wants for dinner but tonight I’m just going to pour myself a drink and say a big f--- you to all the guys who don’t appreciate their women.
Sierra Nicole
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Sierra’s story isn’t unique — moms everywhere feel undervalued for the work they do at home, for carrying the mental load, and for so often being the default parent. There’s a reason for the saying “it takes a village;” being a mom is hard on multiple levels.
But it doesn’t have to be lonely. Recognizing, valuing, and helping out moms — whether they stay at home to provide full-time care or are balancing work while raising their families — is important. Their physical, emotional, and mental well-being requires it.
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It could be something as kind and simple as offering to watch the kids for a few hours so she can get some things done in peace, swinging by with a hot coffee, sending her a hot meal, or even just checking in to see how she’s doing. Just by taking the time to show a mom that you see her and the awesome job she’s doing, you’ll make her feel a lot more appreciated for who she is and what she does.
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Military Dad Defends His 4 Little Daughters When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Military Dad of 4 Daughters Defends His Girls When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Austin von Letkemann is the military officer strangers feel "sorry" for — and the reason is infuriating.
Whenever the devoted father leaves the house with his four children, strangers can't help but notice the officer in uniform is holding hands with 4 adorable little girls. They will tell the traditionally "masculine" and "all American" dad they feel sorry for him, because he has no sons. This dad makes one thing very clear: They are his daughters, they aren't a burden.
In a passionate video, von Letkemann took to Instagram to share with his followers that the only thing that's "difficult" about being a girl dad — is clapping back to these sexist remarks over and over again.
They Mock His Daughters To Their Face
When strangers approach Austin von Letkemann and his four daughters, they don't always realize that their comments are being overheard. They seem oblivious to the fact that his girls understand every word. Von Letkemann describes how people will approach him and, without thinking, make remarks like "I'm sorry" or even joke about his lack of sons. What they don't realize is that these comments, intended to be light-hearted or humorous, can be deeply hurtful to his daughters. These strangers are not just disrespecting von Letkemann's choices as a father; they're also sending a message to his daughters that their presence is something to be pitied. It’s a message that von Letkemann won't stand for, and he's speaking out to defend his girls from these insensitive remarksSaying "Get Your Shotgun" Isn't Funny — It's Sexist
Another common comment that Austin von Letkemann encounters is the old "better get your shotgun ready" trope, often delivered with a smirk or a wink. This line is typically intended to suggest that a father with daughters should be on high alert to protect them from potential "suitors," implying that they are objects to be guarded rather than individuals with agency.
Von Letkemann finds this line of thinking outdated and sexist. In his viral Instagram video, he points out that these jokes are not just stale — they're damaging.
By suggesting that his daughters require armed protection, the joke reinforces the idea that women are inherently vulnerable and need to be shielded from men. Von Letkemann argues that instead of promoting this narrative, society should focus on teaching respect and consent, challenging these sexist tropes at their source.
Watch Austin von Letkemann's Video:
"If I Had A Fifth Child, I'd HOPE It Was A Girl" — One Dad's Message For Other Parents
Despite the constant remarks about his lack of sons, Austin von Letkemann is clear: He wouldn't trade his daughters for anything.
In fact, he told his Instagram followers that if he were to have a fifth child, he would hope for another girl. This declaration isn't just about doubling down on his pride in his family — it's a pointed response to those who see fathering daughters as a misfortune.
Von Letkemann's stance is a powerful one, rejecting the notion that a family is incomplete without sons. He encourages others to question the assumptions behind these comments and to appreciate the joy and fulfillment that his daughters bring. By sharing his story, von Letkemann hopes to create a more inclusive perspective on fatherhood, one that values daughters just as much as sons.