One thing that Canadian megastar Jim Carrey is well-known for is his philosophy: Life is meant to be ad-libbed.
To non-actors, it’s fascinating to watch Carrey ad-lib and go off script -- in life and on screen -- at a moment’s notice. His screen presence deeply portrays his passion in everything he does.
Although Carrey has long been king when it comes to ad-libbing, life wasn’t always megastardom for the comedian. At the young age of 15, he dropped out of school to contribute to his household's income, though his family was still forced to moved into a van.
Fast-forward to his life in Los Angeles years later, following tons of hope and gigs in stand-up comedy, Carrey ad-libbed his own recipe for creating the life you want and believing in yourself and your dreams.
In his late 20s, Carrey decided he wanted to make more money, so he wrote himself a check in the amount of $10 million dollars. He then gave himself only five years to cash it. On the check, he wrote “For acting services rendered.” In 1995, he landed the lead role in Dumb and Dumber and with this one gig, he generated enough income to cash his check.
This is the power of unwavering belief in your dreams.
Here are 3 quotes from Jim Carrey’s quotes to help you believe you can create your own dreams
"As far as I can tell, it’s just about letting the universe know what you want and then working toward it while letting go of how it comes to pass.”
Let the universe know “what you want” and let go of the delivery. This is one philosophy that is taught in every single self-help modality. The problem we have is that we first create a desire, then try to use our minds to make it happen.
The universe is much bigger than our minds, so letting go and then allowing is the first step. Don’t try to control the outcome. Do the work and receive it.
“It is better to risk starving to death than surrender. If you give up on your dreams, what’s left?”
If you have ever worried about putting food on the table, then you know just how strong the fear is that one day you will starve. Even if this thought is the furthest from the truth, it’s still a fear.
Giving up on your dreams means risking loss of the nightmare. Your dream is given only to you. No one else in the world has your dream. Can you risk “starving to death” to follow your dreams?
“Desperation is a necessary ingredient to learning anything, or creating anything. Period. If you ain’t desperate at some point, you ain’t interesting.”
This one took a little while to absorb. Why is desperation a necessary ingredient? Because the hungrier you are, the more likely you are to find a solution.
The truest lessons are learned at rock bottom, where the fertile soul of change is waiting for new seeds. The seeds you plant in the most desperate of times also contain the dreams you hold inside.
Take some time today to truly assimilate these lessons and perhaps draft a check to yourself with a due date in the same way that Carrey did. Self-belief is the most powerful motivator.
Military Dad Defends His 4 Little Daughters When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Military Dad of 4 Daughters Defends His Girls When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Austin von Letkemann is the military officer strangers feel "sorry" for — and the reason is infuriating.
Whenever the devoted father leaves the house with his four children, strangers can't help but notice the officer in uniform is holding hands with 4 adorable little girls. They will tell the traditionally "masculine" and "all American" dad they feel sorry for him, because he has no sons. This dad makes one thing very clear: They are his daughters, they aren't a burden.
In a passionate video, von Letkemann took to Instagram to share with his followers that the only thing that's "difficult" about being a girl dad — is clapping back to these sexist remarks over and over again.
They Mock His Daughters To Their Face
When strangers approach Austin von Letkemann and his four daughters, they don't always realize that their comments are being overheard. They seem oblivious to the fact that his girls understand every word. Von Letkemann describes how people will approach him and, without thinking, make remarks like "I'm sorry" or even joke about his lack of sons. What they don't realize is that these comments, intended to be light-hearted or humorous, can be deeply hurtful to his daughters. These strangers are not just disrespecting von Letkemann's choices as a father; they're also sending a message to his daughters that their presence is something to be pitied. It’s a message that von Letkemann won't stand for, and he's speaking out to defend his girls from these insensitive remarksSaying "Get Your Shotgun" Isn't Funny — It's Sexist
Another common comment that Austin von Letkemann encounters is the old "better get your shotgun ready" trope, often delivered with a smirk or a wink. This line is typically intended to suggest that a father with daughters should be on high alert to protect them from potential "suitors," implying that they are objects to be guarded rather than individuals with agency.
Von Letkemann finds this line of thinking outdated and sexist. In his viral Instagram video, he points out that these jokes are not just stale — they're damaging.
By suggesting that his daughters require armed protection, the joke reinforces the idea that women are inherently vulnerable and need to be shielded from men. Von Letkemann argues that instead of promoting this narrative, society should focus on teaching respect and consent, challenging these sexist tropes at their source.
Watch Austin von Letkemann's Video:
"If I Had A Fifth Child, I'd HOPE It Was A Girl" — One Dad's Message For Other Parents
Despite the constant remarks about his lack of sons, Austin von Letkemann is clear: He wouldn't trade his daughters for anything.
In fact, he told his Instagram followers that if he were to have a fifth child, he would hope for another girl. This declaration isn't just about doubling down on his pride in his family — it's a pointed response to those who see fathering daughters as a misfortune.
Von Letkemann's stance is a powerful one, rejecting the notion that a family is incomplete without sons. He encourages others to question the assumptions behind these comments and to appreciate the joy and fulfillment that his daughters bring. By sharing his story, von Letkemann hopes to create a more inclusive perspective on fatherhood, one that values daughters just as much as sons.