Thrifting can net all sorts of treasures. Shoppers can snatch up everything from vintage clothes to mid-century modern furniture to kitschy knick-knacks, all without breaking the bank.
But for one grieving woman, she found a hidden gem that was truly priceless.
Unexpected Thrift Store Find
Photo of a little girl with her father and a black purse.
TikTok/Abrielle Clausing
On January 13, 2021, Abrielle Clausing's world fell apart. Her father unexpectedly passed away from Covid-19. As anyone who has experienced grief knows, the journey isn't a straight one. It ebbs and flows with some days being significantly harder than others.
It was during a "particularly hard grief week" when Abrielle, 24, decided to embark on some retail therapy. She used to love thrifting with her dad, and no one loved a good deal more than he did.
However, she didn't just want to shop for the sake of shopping, she had a very specific item she wanted in mind.
"My sister and I decided to go thrifting and I told her I wanted to find a vintage Fossil brand purse," she explains in a now-viral TikTok video.
And wouldn't you know, Abrielle did indeed end up finding "the cutest vintage Fossil brand purse" - seriously what are the chances?
And as if that wasn't serendipitous enough, it was about to get a whole lot more remarkable.
Inside the purse was a handwritten note:
"When you read this you will be far from me in miles but not in my heart. I'm here. I love you."
Whelp.
She immediately took it as a sign from her beloved dad.
"I knew it was from him," she told People. "I always check the inside of the bag before I buy it to make sure it’s in good condition. When I stuck my hand in it, I felt the piece of paper and when I took it out and found the note, I read it out loud to my sister."
"When I saw the note, it just confirmed that he was with us," she added. "He’s always with us."
Response To The Viral TikTok
TikTok · abrielleclausingAbrielle's heartwarming video has garnered nearly one million views and over 1,000 comments and it's making believers out of every single one of us.
"I'm so afraid that death is final and we just stop existing. But some things can't be explained. There has to be more out there!!"
"This was def him 🥹💙"
"I’m literally crying so hard. Someone would have had to carry me out of the thrift 😭"
"I'm honestly at a loss for words. Wow. Just wow."
Even Fossil weighed in, writing, "What a beautiful note to find. Your dad's love will always be with you. Sending you and your family a big, warm hug."
Her TikTok also opened the floodgates for others to share the signs they've received from lost loved ones.
"My brother passed away & years later I was at a checkout line in the store & at the cash register was a young school photo of him that someone left.... never made sense but I'll never forget it."
"About 30 seconds after bursting in tears thinking about my grandpa a car merged in front of me and the license plate was his name and his age when he died 😭😭"
"When my mom passed, days after I found an email that not me nor my sister had opened or read before. It was an email my mom sent us 4 years before with the message “open it when I’m gone, love, mom”. It had a beautiful letter as an attachment."
Love Lives On
The note Abrielle Clausing found in a Fossil bag while thrifting is now part of a cherished collage.
People.com/Abrielle Clausing
Abrielle has given the note a place of honor, right smack in the middle of a framed collage of her favorite sayings and things.
It's a beautiful reminder that the love she shared with her dad lives on, even though he is gone.
And whether you believe in fate or not, you have to admit the universe had an uncanny way of showing up just when she needed it to.
After all, what are the odds that a stranger penned a note with the exact words she needed to hear, placed it in the exact bag she was looking for, AND that bag ended up in the exact thrift store she was shopping in? Pretty astronomical.
And yet, here we are.
Life is full of unexpected, magical moments that often happen when we least expect it. And sometimes those moments bring us the comfort and connection we need most, reminding us that love...is never truly lost.
How Living Zero-Waste Will Clean Up Your Life -- And Your World
You might have seen those viral videos of individuals or even families who can fit an entire year's worth of trash into a tiny jar. By trying to ensure that everything purchased is recycled or reused, followers of the zero-waste movements are striving to avoid creating any garbage that will end up in landfills. But reduced waste isn't the only result of being mindful about your consumption -- it creates a cleaner world and life.
Ever wonder why someone would put so much effort into cutting down on waste? And if someone is interested doing so, how do they get started?
Find a deeper meaning
Beyond the obvious motivation of looming climate change devastation, for many, the journey towards zero-waste living is the result of wanting a simpler life, focused on experiences and people rather than possessions.
For others, the zero-waste journey springs from environmental concerns and then leads to a more joyful life, richer in emotional fulfillment.
For others yet, it's a way to be more connected to their faith, by honoring and protecting the natural world.
Spark joy in your life
We are overwhelmed by possessions. Countless homes have become storage areas rather than living spaces. It's no wonder there are so many spin-offs from TV shows like Storage Wars and Hoarders. We are drowning in stuff and don't know how to let go.
Do we need organizing experts like Marie Kondo to teach us how to declutter and organize all the unnecessary stuff we own? Decluttering and keeping only possessions that spark joy isn't going to work, if we keep buying and buying.
The secret to a less anxious and more eco-friendly life is surprisingly simple and difficult at the same time.
Buy less, live more
The main tenet of a zero-waste lifestyle is creating as little trash as possible. And how do we generate trash? Through our purchases.
Whether it's a cute top or the newest iPhone, we're constantly bombarded by messages to buy, buy, buy. Omnipresent aggressive marketing has led to a destructive cycle of consumerism where every problem can be solved with a fresh pair of kicks or the newest gadget.
Every time you feel the impulse to buy something, just wait. Chances are if you wait and don't give into your fear of missing out, you'll realize you don't actually need or even want whatever you were about to buy.
Fewer purchases means more money in the bank, which means more financial security, and the opportunity to go on that long-coveted vacation or taking that class you've been dreaming about.
Twenty years from now, you won't remember a random pair of sneakers or why you needed a newer smartwatch, but you will remember a family road trip, the artist that taught you how to paint, and the friends you made in that creative writing class.
Build a community
Zero-wasters are constantly on the lookout for new tips and tricks to minimize their impact on the environment. They are also eager to share their knowledge and welcome newbies on to the journey towards a more conscious way of living.
Being a "zero-waster" is like being part of a secret club, except there are hundred of thousands of members around the world. You only have to look around to find a community of mentors and friends.
With more than 95,000 members, Journey to Zero-Waste is currently the largest global zero-waste community, with members ranging from homeschooling moms in the Midwest and West Hollywood yoga instructors to German engineers and teachers living off-grid in the Australian outback.
Whatever your passion, there are like-minded people pursuing the same thing, but in a more environmentally conscious way.
Expand your knowledge
Knowledge is the catalyst of change -- and the global zero-waste movement is brimming with it, eager to share. Whether it's fixing a broken zipper, making organic soap at home, or installing your own solar panels, there are countless skills you can learn from fellow zero-wasters. Soon enough you'll be reducing your carbon footprin and nodding along in good old-fashioned stoicism to the mantra of "make do and mend."
After all, if you can fix something why throw it out and replace it with a new one that will break just as easy?
A zero-waste lifestyle can also increase independence and awareness. It's far more difficult to impulsively buy a t-shirt from a fast fashion chain when you know that they're manufactured in unsafe factories, where workers' wages keep them below the poverty line. At the same time, buying something ethically made and handcrafted connects you to person who made it, since it's a product born of passion and carefully honed skill.
Eliminate emotional waste
The careful consideration and more mindful choices that accompany living a zero-waste lifestyle are incredibly useful tools to apply in your emotional and interpersonal life as well.
Putting experiences and people before possessions will shift your focus from ownership to relationships. Being more careful with the items you own so that you can use them for longer also teaches you how to be more mindful of others and their needs.
Decluttering your home shows you how to focus on things that enrich your life, rather than drain it. And there's no bigger emotional drain than toxic people. Just like the five identical jeans that take up space in your closet, so do people take up emotional energy and time in your life. Eliminating those relationships allows you to deepen the enriching ones.
At then end of the day, living a zero-waste life is about carefully considered choices and focusing on the truly meaningful aspects of your life.