10 Valentine's Day Date Ideas That Don't Cost Anything
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and with it, the chance for you to finally surprise your muse with that amazing date you’ve had planned.
Right?
...No?
You haven’t even thought about it, you say?
Well, lucky for you we’ve got you covered anyway. Plus, we’ve put together a whole array of romantic V-Day date ideas that aren’t just awesome -- they’re free.
Do the both of you enjoy more physically-oriented activities such as going out in nature or do you prefer to work your brain? It all comes down to what you and your special someone like to do. That’s why the list below has got something for everyone.
Here are ten Valentine’s Day date ideas that won’t cost you anything.
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1. Have a game night
People grow up and forget just how fun old school games are. Whether it’s a board game like Risk, Monopoly, or Candy Land, or a card game like Cards Against Humanity, games are a fun way to infuse a little flirtatious competition into your Valentine’s Day.
This is especially good for those who are homebodies and would prefer to stay in instead of braving the chaos that is the average restaurant or other hotspot on V-Day.
2. Bake something together
Another super fun and creative date idea is to bake together. Pick something like chocolate chip cookies, red velvet cake, or whatever your poison is and go wild.
Something like pre-made cookie dough or brownie mix takes no time at all to bake, so really anyone can do it (and the more a novice you are, the more fun it will be).
A fun way you can add a twist to this is by making it a baking challenge, having each of you bake the same thing, seeing whose turns out better, and, of course, scarfing it down once you’re done.
3. Visit an animal shelter
Are you both animal lovers? Then a perfect idea could be visiting an animal shelter (or shelters if you have more than one nearby).
It’s simple, but if you love the fluffies, can be a super fun and ridiculously heart-warming date. Cap it off with a burger and a shake on the way home and you’ve got one cozy night out.
4. Have a dance party
If you’re dance lovers, you could try hitting a club for Valentine's. Most you can get in for free before a certain time, hit the dance floor, and get out before it becomes too crowded.
However, if you’d prefer to stay home or have a more intimate night, you could bring the dance party to your (or their) place and dance the night away to your favorites. Plus, by changing up the music you can start it off fun and energetic and end on a romantic note.
5. Have a themed movie night
If you’re the kind to stay in and watch movies or binge Netflix often, a themed movie night could the perfect date.
Since it’s Valentine’s, you could do some rom-coms. However, if you prefer to make it a little more fun, you could do a scare-themed movie night or something more mentally engrossing (think Annihilation).
6. Make each other playlists
If you’re both passionate about music, especially if you’ve been together for a while and have a lot of songs you both have shared memories with, curating a playlist you both sit down to listen to and reminisce about could be a super romantic and simple date idea.
You could change this up as well if you’ve just started dating and make a playlist for one another with a bunch of your favorite music as a way for each of you to get to know each other.
As certain songs play you can explain why you like the song and what part of your life you identify it with. This makes for a great way to get to know each other on an emotional level.
7. Read together
If you’re reading lovers, you can do something similar and instead make a plan to read passages of your favorite books to one another.
You could reserve it to romantic scenes or moments of connection with your favorite characters to take this a step further in a romantic direction.
8. Have a picnic
If you’ve never tried it, picnics are a lot of fun and super romantic. Pack a well-thought-out meal, add some surprises (candles if it’s in the early evening, their favorite hard-to-find desert), and head to the most beautiful park you can find.
If you prefer to get outside while avoiding the crowds for Valentine’s but still want your V-Day to be highly romantic, this is one of the best date ideas out there.
Live in a colder climate? Try setting up an indoor picnic -- lay out your dinner on a blanket and have a cozy evening by candlelight.
9. Take a walk on the beach
You can never go wrong with the beach.
A long walk on the beach at dusk, where you can talk to your heart’s content, watch the sunset, and get your feet wet, is not only incredibly romantic, it costs nothing more than the gas it took you to get there.
10. Go on a hike
Another great idea for those couples who prefer to get active outside, if you’ve never tried hiking, this comes highly suggested.
Hiking is one of the most peaceful and beautiful experiences you can possibly have (and the amazing views are incredibly romantic), so if you and your partner like to get active, it’s a perfect fit.
Plus, if you use an app like All Trails, you can find and map out routes easily and look forward to a beautiful and energizing Valentine’s Day with little effort (except for the sweat you release on your hike!).
Military Dad Defends His 4 Little Daughters When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Military Dad of 4 Daughters Defends His Girls When Strangers Make This Rude Remark
Austin von Letkemann is the military officer strangers feel "sorry" for — and the reason is infuriating.
Whenever the devoted father leaves the house with his four children, strangers can't help but notice the officer in uniform is holding hands with 4 adorable little girls. They will tell the traditionally "masculine" and "all American" dad they feel sorry for him, because he has no sons. This dad makes one thing very clear: They are his daughters, they aren't a burden.
In a passionate video, von Letkemann took to Instagram to share with his followers that the only thing that's "difficult" about being a girl dad — is clapping back to these sexist remarks over and over again.
They Mock His Daughters To Their Face
When strangers approach Austin von Letkemann and his four daughters, they don't always realize that their comments are being overheard. They seem oblivious to the fact that his girls understand every word. Von Letkemann describes how people will approach him and, without thinking, make remarks like "I'm sorry" or even joke about his lack of sons. What they don't realize is that these comments, intended to be light-hearted or humorous, can be deeply hurtful to his daughters. These strangers are not just disrespecting von Letkemann's choices as a father; they're also sending a message to his daughters that their presence is something to be pitied. It’s a message that von Letkemann won't stand for, and he's speaking out to defend his girls from these insensitive remarksSaying "Get Your Shotgun" Isn't Funny — It's Sexist
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Von Letkemann finds this line of thinking outdated and sexist. In his viral Instagram video, he points out that these jokes are not just stale — they're damaging.
By suggesting that his daughters require armed protection, the joke reinforces the idea that women are inherently vulnerable and need to be shielded from men. Von Letkemann argues that instead of promoting this narrative, society should focus on teaching respect and consent, challenging these sexist tropes at their source.
Watch Austin von Letkemann's Video:
"If I Had A Fifth Child, I'd HOPE It Was A Girl" — One Dad's Message For Other Parents
Despite the constant remarks about his lack of sons, Austin von Letkemann is clear: He wouldn't trade his daughters for anything.
In fact, he told his Instagram followers that if he were to have a fifth child, he would hope for another girl. This declaration isn't just about doubling down on his pride in his family — it's a pointed response to those who see fathering daughters as a misfortune.
Von Letkemann's stance is a powerful one, rejecting the notion that a family is incomplete without sons. He encourages others to question the assumptions behind these comments and to appreciate the joy and fulfillment that his daughters bring. By sharing his story, von Letkemann hopes to create a more inclusive perspective on fatherhood, one that values daughters just as much as sons.