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Kevin Hart And Will Smith Get Brutally Honest About Fatherhood Failures
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Kevin Hart And Will Smith Get Brutally Honest About Fatherhood Failures

Parenthood is a beautiful phase of life to be in, but not without its complexities. Mothers and fathers have to balance many different factors all at the same time, while consistently prioritizing their children above all else. There is a learning curve, and while some get to undergo the learning curve in private, others experience parenthood under the watchful eye of the public.Fatherhood has its distinct challenges, challenges which no dad is exempt from even if they're famous. Except, if you are an A-List celebrity, the whole world knows about your missteps.Will & Kevin talk shortcomingsOn a Will Smith takeover of Red Table Talk, Kevin Hart and Will both open up about their experiences as fathers, specifically focusing on their shortcomings and the lessons taught by their children. Kevin, who has recently released the movie Fatherhood on Netflix, exhibits incredible growth as a parent, husband, and individual.The Father’s Day RTT episode begins with Will waiting on Kevin who is over an hour late for the interview. Will jokes that because of Hart’s tardiness he is going to ask hard-hitting questions, and in the end, Smith stands by his word.The deep conversation between Will Smith and Kevin Hart delves into what it really means to be a father, particularly in the spotlight. Kevin has been in his fair share of media scandals, most notably when he cheated on his then pregnant wife Eniko Hart. Hart's other notable scandal was when he stepped down as host of the 2019 Oscars due to past comments made offending the LGBTQ+ community. These very public events have brought into question Hart’s integrity as a family man, in addition to his overall character as well.Will starts off the talk by asking Kevin what he thinks “the values” are that “constitute a good father.”Kevin answers saying:Being different from mine. Like, I had a bad father. No disrespect to my dad, ‘cause I know he’ll see this…My dad wasn’t the best father.Kevin describes his experience with his own father saying that his dad used drugs, was absent, in jail, and not around because of his relationship with Kevin’s mother.Kevin reveals, “Me and my brother knew my dad was on drugs. And that’s, that’s tough.”Will shares his relationship with his father saying that it was “rough,” and adding, that it was a “serious military household.” Smith shares childhood trauma saying that he used to “watch my father bust my mother in the head and knock her down.”Will’s relationship with his dad helped shape his current relationship with his own kids. Smith says, “That was my image of relating, and I made the decision that I damn sure wasn’t going to do that when I have my family.”Hart adds, “I see the mistakes my dad made, and I’m just trying to be better than that.”Kevin's children opened his eyes - and he really needed itKevin Hart has four children. Heaven, aged 16, and Hendrix, aged 14, are from Hart’s first marriage to ex-wife Torrei. Kevin also has Kenzo, aged 3, and Kaori, 8 months, with wife Eniko. Kevin praises both Torrei and Eniko as amazing mothers.Referring to his past scandals and media storms, Kevin says of addressing the controversies with his children, “you’re never prepared for that side of it.”Kevin begins discussing the accountability his children represent for him. He reveals, “I can say having a little girl in my life… it’s tough. You don’t realize the impact that your mistakes can truly have. When the kids get involved, it’s a different feeling, it’s a different opinion, it’s a different emotion.”And, through my public debacles, I got on some armor dude. It’s very hard to shoot through this, to poke through this. It’s very hard to bother me. It’s very hard, Will! 1000% I’m telling you it’s so hard to bother me.Kevin HartThen Kevin clarifies there is an exception to affecting him emotionally, and that is through his children. He explains, “But, when your child shows disappointment, shows emotion, shows ‘I don’t understand, why?’ And, you gotta have those conversations, well, now head drops for the first time. And now you realize that there is a different emotional cord that can be pulled on you that nobody else has the privilege of ever touching, and my daughter touched on that cord, man.”Kevin says of his cheating scandal, “You know, when me and my wife went through what we went through, the whole cheating display, my talk with Heaven, God damn, God damn, that was one like no other. Getting my daughter back, getting my daughter to understand that I’m sorry, that I made a mistake. That was real. To understand like, I’m still dad…”Until this day my daughter is tough on me...Kevin HartWill then shares that he and Jada have chosen to be very open with their children about “their realities.” They tell their kids “everything,” and try and get ahead of a media storm, but at times they have fallen short.The struggle between fathers and daughters(Instagram)As we grow older our relationships with our parents evolve, but the father-daughter relationship has its specific characteristics that are sometimes universal. There is often a struggle within fathers between letting go of their daughters and respecting their right to explore life with independence, and balancing expressing their often natural protective instincts.Hart and Smith reveal this struggle to be a challenge for them as girl dads, particularly in the limelight. They discuss their concerns of properly equipping their children for the harsh realities of life given the comfortable environments they have raised them in. Regarding their daughters, Hart and Smith are both concerned about unwanted male attention just like many fathers out there.Regarding the LGBTQ+ community scandal, Kevin reveals, “my daughter was so upset, because she couldn’t process how people could think this about her father.”And, it was so tough because this is when I started to realize how my fame has an impact on my household.Kevin HartKevin had to see things from a new perspective. He says, “I had to really understand my daughter’s side. My daughter had a talk with me about her mother that rocked me, she checked me! She said, ‘I want you to stop saying…because when you say these things dad, ‘this, and this and this…’”Kevin reveals that Heaven essentially woke him up to his insensitive ways.He says, “It took me a minute to understand that. Now I can honestly say, the relationships have improved because I am now aware of the shit that I could have done to bring havoc or bring problems.”Will asks Kevin what he has “learned over his 16 years as a parent,” and Kevin jokes that he is going to cry as he tries to answer the question.Then Hart displays incredible personal growth saying, “You know Will, what am I learning should be the question because, you’re constantly learning. I’m 41, I’m getting older, I’m getting more mature, and the biggest lesson to date is just learning to listen. I was a late bloomer to the listening side of it. I was taught to say what I wanted to say.”Kevin reflects and says, “I wish that I would have arrived at this space in my earlier years, and I just would have been able to handle a lot of different situations differently. There’s a lot of people that were probably misunderstood, there a lot of relationships that were lost because of the way that I handled stuff. You gotta listen, man.”While Kevin Hart has had more than one media snafu to date, it is evident through his uncensored, unfiltered, and emotional talk with Will Smith that he has grown. The way forwardThe powerful bond between a parent and their child is subject to change over the years. We are so close to the ones we love, and in reality, we hurt those people the most. Whether you live a very public life or a private one, our mistakes can often swallow us up emotionally if we do not choose to grow from the experience.Choose growth and watch your relationships flourish. If there’s anything to learn from experiencing failure it's that there is always a valuable lesson inside. It is human nature to err but it is a choice to learn.The choice is yours.

From Homeless to Movie Star – How Kevin Hart Changed Tiffany Haddish’s Life with $300
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From Homeless to Movie Star – How Kevin Hart Changed Tiffany Haddish’s Life with $300

A decade ago, comedian Tiffany Haddish was homeless and living out of her car.But the kindness and generosity of her Night School co-star Kevin Hart changed her life. In 2005, at an L.A.-based comedy show, Hart noticed a bunch of stuff in Haddish's car. He approached the aspiring comedian to offer kind words and all the money he had on himself -- $300. That moment changed Haddish’s life.Trying to make it in L.A.’s notoriously competitive stand-up scene, the Girls Trip star was working at a local comedy club – and doing her best to hide it from everyone. But Hart, whom she now calls the “big little brother she never had,” saw her struggle.Haddish used the $300 he gave her to sleep in a hotel room for a few days. Hart also advised her to write down her most important goals and put her life together to pursue them. Haddish followed his advice, and Hart followed Haddish’s efforts, and they ended up developing a strong friendship.Now, the two comedians headline the much-hyped comedy Night School, a movie that follows a group of misfits pursuing their GEDs in adulthood. And though she plays the role of a teacher in Night School, being a bit of an outcast is a familiar feeling to Haddish, whose childhood was cut short by tragedy.Haddish's father left the family when she was only three. Her mother Leola moved, and had four more children with her second husband. But when Haddish was only eight, her fathered tampered with her mother’s car breaks, resulting in an accident that left Leola with severe brain damage – and could have harmed the children as well, had they not unexpectedly chosen to stay home that day.It’s been suggested that the accident might have triggered Leola’s schizophrenia as well, leaving a nine-year-old Haddish to be the main family caregiver. But Haddish’s struggles were far from over then.Just three years after the car accident, Haddish and her siblings were separated from each other and put into foster care. Reunited with them under their grandmother’s care at 15 years old, Haddish used comedy to cope with new environments.But despite an obvious talent for acting, she struggled at school. Her transgressions escalated to the point where she was one step away from mandatory psychiatric therapy. Her last chance to avoid that was attending the Laugh Factory Comedy Camp, an experience she credits with ultimately saving her life.

Kevin Hart: I Was Going to Be a Stripper
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Kevin Hart: I Was Going to Be a Stripper

Kevin Hart - Take Responsibility Kevin Hart sits down at the breakfast club to talk about the struggle and how its okay to go through phases in life where you're not in an ideal position. Transcript: Speaker 1: I was going to be a stripper. Speaker 2: He was going to be a stripper. Speaker 3: You were going to be a stripper? Speaker 1: I was going to be a stripper. This is me in community college. Money is dry, and I was dealing with this girl. This chick, she was like, “You know what you should do?” Speaker 2: She tried to pimp him. Speaker 1:“You should start dancing.” Speaker 3: Dancing. What was the stripper name? Speaker 1: Huh? What was going to be my stripper name? Speaker 3: Yes. Speaker 1: We didn’t get that far. Speaker 3: Oh, okay. Speaker 1: We got far enough for me to think about a routine that I should do. We got far enough for her to give me advice on a routine, and she got some outfits. Speaker 3:Outfits? Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, “Dude, this is what you gotta wear.” That’s when I started getting skeptical. As funny as me putting myself in a situation to possibly almost strip is, there’s a lesson in that. Like, yo, as crazy as it was, desperation was in and I was about to go to the ultimate route of desperation. It took somebody going, “Man, what the hell are you doing? My brother, what are you doing? Stupid! What are you doing? No, you ain’t about to do that. Go out there and just take your lumps. You’ll figure it out. You ain’t about to do this, not my brother.” It took somebody checking me to make me go, “All right, it ain't that bad to struggle.” I thought if you were struggling, that’s bad, because what else you do? Man, go struggle. Go get your dumb ass out there. It’s a lesson within the attempt to find an easy route. I wanted a quick fix. How do I get some quick money in my pocket? The life lesson within that moment was there is no win in the quick route. Everybody wants that quick route. Everybody wants to, “Why I’ma go straight when I can zigzag real quick and get there at the same time?” There’s nothing wrong with taking a longer route. There’s nothing wrong with grinding. There’s nothing wrong with actually working and getting a little dirty and getting some lessons from the dirt that you now got on your hands. Your life is a book. You got different chapters in your life. Ultimately, you’re gonna get to the end of your book. However you want that book to end is up to you. Are you learning from the chapters? Are you taking the positives out of the negatives to make the next chapters better? Or are you the type of person that can finish each chapter on the negative and shoulder shrug it? You gotta start taking responsibility. When I started doing that, that's when I started to grow, that's when I started to get better.

Kevin Hart: Realize Your Own Potential
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Kevin Hart: Realize Your Own Potential

Kevin Hart - Chase That Light Actor Kevin Hart talks about the many rejections he faced, and how he refused to let anyone or anything stop him from going after his dreams. Transcript: "I got 19 years of, 'No. Not good enough. No. No. No. You don't get the part. No. No.' You don't need the permission of a higher level to make you feel that you can do what you want to do. In today's time, it's literally just about you realizing your own potential and being creative within your own potential. Oh, this is what I can do, so I need to master this, this, and this. "At any point in my life, I don't think I'm going to stop. This is not a race. This is not something that's going to end fast. My goals are high and I got people that I look up to. When we talk about your Oprahs, your Tyler Perry, your Jay Zs, your Beyonces, you're looking at self-made moguls. And I'll be damned if I didn't see an example in front of me that showed me a light. I want that light. I'm going after that light. That's why you see me grind the way I grind."